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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm twenty years old and have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now. We met while working with eachother and still do to this day. I have never been with a guy that treats me so good. He gives me everything i want and more the thing is im not sure if me and him are really meant to be together. I adore him but even after three month i dont feel as if im fallin in love with him. Yes i can say that i do love him but i cannot say that i know for sure if i ever will fall in love with him completely. Not only this i have recently started to crush on a guy in one of my classes at school. Im pretty sure he likes me back and i could definetly see us having a relationship together and wouldnt mind pursuing him. Which scares me because usually when im with someone i never even think about other men. Ive been considering breaking it off with my current boyfriend but am scared to leave someone that treats me so good and makes me happy. Im also scared that i will just be settling for someone just because he treat me good but not because i really love him. Then there is also the problem of us working together and me having to face him on a daily basis. I would really like to hear someones opinion on this and what is the best way for me to approach this situation.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (20 April 2008):
You can't stay with a guy just because he's nice and gives you nice things. If you don't love him then there is another girl out there who will fall head over heels with him and you are stopping him from finding that girl.
You took the risk of a messy ending by getting together with someone you work with.
Break it off gently and find a new job. The wait a little while and find this new guy.
You need passion and love in a relationship or you will just end up bitter and hating him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Ck1 +, writes (20 April 2008):
People love different people, and no matter how good a man treats u, you have to follow your heart....xxx
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