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32 and I don't know how to approach women successfully

Q.   Hi there. I’m 32 and still trying to get the hang of this dating thing before I lose the will to live. Im really trying to put pressure on myself to find a girlfriend as the gaps between partners in my life has been just too big meaning I’ve had ...

A.   27 December 2010: hey, I understand what you are saying, but there is never to short of time to find the right girl! email me privately through dear cupid for a chat sometime. Goodluck :)... (read in full...)

I'm the cheated wife!

Q.   Hi I'm the cheated Wife. My Ex found his true love at work and they both conspired to Divorce their spouses. She has a kid and I've a little boy as well. My ex was not sure in the beginning but she pressured him to get the divorce first and she woul...

A.   12 August 2010: Your worth more...than a man like that. Hes spoke and treated you awfully.. The grass is rarely greener on the other side...but dont be there when he's left with nothing. Be happy with someone who'll respect you! Goodluck! Look after your self!! x... (read in full...)

How do I sort my head out and get back on track?

Q.   Hello, i would be very grateful if you could read this and not judge. I just dont know whats wrong with me, my head is so messed up. I am 17 years old and i am currently studying my A2 levels (loads of work), i just recently passed my driving ...

A.   31 October 2009: I want to thank you for your respondes, and it has helped me, i guess i just need to be me and stop thinking about other stupid things. I will have all them things some day when i have had a life first. x... (read in full...)

Help! I left a 31-year relationship with a woman I could 100% trust, for a relationship that I don't think I can ever trust!

Q.   hi all this is a long one so here we go,i meet this girl about 16 months ago by the way im 48 shes 45 around the same time i left my wife now ex-my girlfriend isn't exactly the honest type found out she was seeing here old boyfriend behind my back ...

A.   31 October 2009: alot of people leave there wifes and long term relationships because they think aw i could have great sex and fun with this girl. alot of them dont think on loyality or trust issues to follow. Like the grass is greener on the other side (most men). ... (read in full...)

61, tired of living in a sexless marriage, I have needs, what do you suggest?

Q.   I have lived in a sexless marriage now for 9 years.Husband had guillian barre which he blames for the problem. have been married 40 years am aged 61 but still feel I have needs, am i normal to want sex? husband will have NOTHING to do with me ...

A.   23 May 2009: go an find yourself a real toy boy who will statisfy your needs an ditch the man who will show you no affection but is quiet happy to show other women attention!! turn the tables chic!! go 4 it!! xx... (read in full...)

I am not physically attracted to my wife any longer. What to do about it?

Q.   I know this is horrible of me but I am not physically attracted to my wife anymore. since we started dating and now since we are married she has put on a lot of weight while I have now for the past four months have started a workout and diet plan ...

A.   1 May 2009: stop being a nob and respect and love her for whatever size!... (read in full...)

We both love each other but I don't know if I could trust her or him.

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. But we broke up last week because we just couldn't handle us fighting all the time. We seemed t be fighting about the same stuff over and over. I was going to school and working too much and ...

A.   13 April 2009: Hello, i recently went through something the same, and me and my partner tried so many times, but you need to be the person who stands up and says yeh i love you, but it isn't enough, when you do this is will hurt for a wile, but you will get ove... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to have a baby I'm not ready for

Q.   hi just needed some advice, ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years everything is good but he has a daughter of 2 years old that he hasnt seen in over 2 years cause his baby momma took her to jamaica with her so since he hasnt seen his daughter he ...

A.   2 February 2009: talk to him...communication is the key tool in relationships!! goodluck x... (read in full...)

Depressed with no improvements...

Q.   Another year older and even more depressed, I have nothing to show for it, not even a freind, no job, no car, no life, no social life, never had boyfriend at this stage there is no point, never travelled, the country is in recession. Life is going ...

A.   1 January 2009: hello, if you want to send me a private message i would be more than happy to chat with you, because ive had times like you are saying, i see your from ireland i am from n.ireland, if you wana private message me i would be happy :) thanks clare... (read in full...)

Am I being to selfish for wanting him home with us rather than following his dream??

Q.   AHH! I dont know what to do! My heart is torn in 2 right now. My husband just told me like 5 min. after new year mark that he is going to join the army! I want him to follow his dreams and I know this is what he wants but I'm so scared! We've ...

A.   1 January 2009: hello, i dont think you are being selfish hun, you need to sit down and have a chat with him, you need to tell him that yous have a small daughter together and you dont want him to risk his life and miss time with his daughter, if its what he rea... (read in full...)

Names for the baby?? Need help!

Q.   alright, i know i ask WAY to many questions, but im like sooo scared right now. i am 7 months pregnant and it is a boy. i was trying to think of names and i can only think of one but its kind of girlie. anyone have any boy names they wanna ...

A.   27 December 2008: sac,neil,lennon,james,comrad,sam,gareth,barry etc... (read in full...)

Big age difference! End it?

Q.   Im dating someone whos 19 years older then me...and i dont know if i should finish it because of the age gap. Help? ...

A.   27 December 2008: first of all you need to work out how good a guy he is, and find out why he is with you before you do anything sudden, if he treats you well and you love him, dont worry about the age, although find out alot about the man first of all hun, g... (read in full...)

What do you think of my poem?

Q.   Dear people, I'm in need of your very honest opinion. I wrote the following poem from the heart and before I give it to that someone, I just needed to know what other people think of it, any comment will be highly appreciated. Below is the poe...

A.   17 December 2008: made me cry, really nice! x... (read in full...)

Should I be insulted, my husband tells his friends he was attracted to me because of my breasts?

Q.   would you be insulted if your husband told a group of people we were out with (mainly his friends) that the first thing that attracted him to me was my big breasts and was the reason he approach me. I felt a bit like it was disrespectiful, ...

A.   24 June 2008: i wouldnt give him any sex....to let him suffer for his disrespectful behaviour ... (read in full...)

She doesn't believe in sex before marrige, how can I bring her around?

Q.   Hi, I'm 19 and from the UK. I've been living in Banff, Canada for the summer and have met a girl that I really like who's a similar age. We've got with each other a few times and I've slept round her house after nights out and what have you......

A.   22 June 2008: i think your are a bit shallow, if she has decided not to have sex, then respect her view, ... (read in full...)

He treats me so good, but I don't know if we really belong together.

Q.   I'm twenty years old and have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now. We met while working with eachother and still do to this day. I have never been with a guy that treats me so good. He gives me everything i want and more the thing is im not ...

A.   20 April 2008: People love different people, and no matter how good a man treats u, you have to follow your heart....xxx... (read in full...)

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