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I don't know how to show my ex I still like him without making a fool of myself...

Q.   My boyfriend and I recently split up and I want him back.He like's someone else but still likes me a bit.I really dont know how to show i like him without making a fool of myself.Does anyone know any good tips on getting your ex boyfriend back. T...

A.   18 August 2008: Its not healthy to stay with unfinished feeling! -- I would say just be honest. Tell him how you feel, Once you know Yes or No, its clear for you to make the next step. It can be a bit embarrasing to say that to you ex, but its worth to try if ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hit me, but now threatens to kill himself if I leave him. Help!

Q.   My bf and I get on good normally bt when we argue.. WE ARGUE.. we shout scream evrything but today he punched me.. I was in complete hysterics and tried to leave but he locked me in and I eventually managed to leave when his mate came in. He phoned ...

A.   18 August 2008: Leave him now Sweetie. I was in a similar situation. I know its hard to leave somone you love. But there is no future. Killing himself, is just a threat! That what my exhusband did to me! - i left him and he is still alive and enjoys hanging ... (read in full...)

I met this married man, who lives far away from me, we e-mail each other, and joke back and forth, he talks to me about his family, there is no romance, is this what people would call an emotional affair?

Q.   I've being email keeping contact with this guy for a year and a half. we are friends, but our emails are friendly ones. He talks about his family and likes to update me of things going on with his life. We have share pics, jokes and thoughts. ...

A.   12 August 2008: You are developing a xxx relationship with a married man without realizing it my dear! -- You should stay away from him and start talking less to him if you really want to keep him as a friend. I dont think anyone (opposite sex) would want to ... (read in full...)

I was working as a nanny, but was it just bad luck to meet an odd couple like them?

Q.   Three years ago, I had emotional affair with a married man when I worked for his family as a live-in nanny. I didn't do anything inapropriate even though I was in love with him. It was all about him. He was smitten which putting me in an extremily ...

A.   12 August 2008: If you want peace, move on my dear and forget about your emotional affair! Best wishes! ... (read in full...)

Are there any other couples still using condoms after getting married?

Q.   My husband and I are married less than a year and we're still using condoms just to play safe. We've tried without once or twice but are too scared. Just want to know if there are any couples who are still using condoms after getting married. Or...

A.   12 August 2008: There are alot of contraceptive options available. Why don't you try pills and i suggest you consult with your doctor to avoid any side effects. Good luck! ... (read in full...)

I have a loving husband, recently I met a guy on the internet who I connect with, he has cheated on his wife before, I have never cheated on my husband, should I have some fun and cheat?

Q.   I'm recently married to a loving husband. We've been dating for 5 years before we got married. I met this guy who's also married on the internet and there's a definite attraction between the two of us. He has cheated on his wife a couple of times ...

A.   12 August 2008: Cheat on your husband will destroy your marriage life! why do you want fun with other man if your husband is loving and caring. Why bother being withsome who cheats on his wife? - He is just playing my dear. Don't do it my dear if you still wa... (read in full...)

He told me people I stuff my bra when I asked him not to!

Q.   My boyfriend told his friends that I stuff my bra when I said to not. He does feel pretty bad and told me right away. But I'm still mad at him. Does he have any respect for me? My friends think I should break up with him. Any ideas...

A.   11 August 2008: Sweetie, please go through the questions, he has posted 2 questions there. I know he feels very regret. I know this is too bad that he broke his promise with you. That show no respect to you, but sweetie sometime people do think without knowing ... (read in full...)

Should I meet this girl for sex? She thinks I'm 16 but I'm not!

Q.   ok im 14 and im dating or was dating a 16 yr old girl. we been talking over the internet. when we finally meet i took her to the movies. i like her she like me. we start kissing. it was dark because we where in a theater. she took of her bra and i ...

A.   10 August 2008: Go back to her and tell her you real age. Never good to lie! It will become a very bad habit and it hurts poeple. I think you should NOT have sex at this age. Wait for a while, till you are more mature and have better understanding about se... (read in full...)

I'm thinking about a baby. If I just stopped taking my pills without telling my boyfriend...?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years I am 22 and he's 21. We live together as well as his brother in a 2 bedroom apartment, but in about 2 months we will have an actual home. Their dad is buying it and we are renting it from him. my guy ...

A.   10 August 2008: Wanting a baby is not Crazy. But sweetie, i strongly suggest you talk to you boyfriend. You do not want to be pregnant alone! So, share with and see how he feels. Goodlucy my dear. ... (read in full...)

How do I steal him away from her?

Q.   I really like this guy but he has a girlfriend. How do I steal him away from her?...

A.   10 August 2008: For whatever reasons, i think you should leave them alone. There are alot of single men outthere why have to hurt others. Good luck sweetheart. ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?

Q.   I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...

A.   8 August 2008: You are so young my dear! 13?? From my culture, women have to keep their vaginity for only their husbands. Anyway, i would not ask you to do the same as our people here. We are from different places, culuture but again you are just 13, and some... (read in full...)

Have I married the wrong sort of man for me? Is my marriage worth saving?

Q.   Please help, I need advice. I am a 29 year old married woman with a 3 year old son. Ive been with my husband since I was 20 and been married for 4 years. On the surface we seem like any other couple but I am deeply unhappy in our marriage...

A.   8 August 2008: 2 years ago I was exactly in the same situation as you do now. But you sound luckier than me, coz my exhuband is so violent mentally and physically. That was a nightmare for me living with such a man for 7 years until another man (single) came ... (read in full...)

I'm falling for an online guy, but I am worried

Q.   I have found a man on the internet that is what seems to be the 'perfect match' for me. We have all the same things in common and we have sat and spoke for twelve hours at a time. I am completely falling for him and we're meant to be meeting in a ...

A.   8 August 2008: Hi, I have made some good friends on the internet. So i believe there are good men on the net are real and who wish to have real relationship but at the same there are a lot of scamers poeple who enjoy flirting and cheating on women's feeling ... (read in full...)

Our relationship has gone long distance.. will it work out?

Q.   Due to working, I moved to another place which is far from my gf. We can no longer meet each other. The next time I meet her will be end of next year. It becomes a distance relationship. It has been few months now. Everything is doing great. My ...

A.   8 August 2008: Long distance relationship is abit hard, i must say. It is my case.. but we never miss to talk to each other. Not a single. We always keep space and make time for each other to communicate. We enjoy our converstaion everytime. We text, we skype ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't want me to talk to my mum! What do I do?

Q.   this is a very long story but ill give you the shortened version. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. He moved in about 10 months ago with me and my two children. When we first met I told him alot of lies and he only found out ...

A.   8 August 2008: Hi, I could see your boyfriend is controlling your life now. I agree with Betty and others, We only have one mum in the world and we could have thousand of partners. Don't leave your mum. From what you told us, she seem to be a dear mum. Tru... (read in full...)

Can he really fancy me if I am 10 years older?

Q.   I am 33 and have recently become very good friends with a 23 yr old guy who calls and texts me all the time and I am attracted to him but he is really good looking and cannnot imagine that he would fancy me but am getting mixed messages.how do I ...

A.   8 August 2008: I dont see any problem with that! There are so many older women married younger men. So why is not possible for you. Princess Alexandra of Denmark who is over 40 just got married a man in his 20s. They are happy couples.... Go for it and g... (read in full...)

Do guys like short girls?

Q.   do guys like short girls? im only 5ft but the guy i like is about 6ft, do you think he would like me even though im small?...

A.   8 August 2008: Hey, don't worry. Some men find short/tiny girl very cute. I am only 5.18 and my husband is 6.23. He's found me very attractive and he is so much in love with me. Good luck sweetie!... (read in full...)

I am trying to forget this idiot and move on. Not knowing what happened is making moving on really hard and I can’t stop analyzing everything!

Q.   Sorry for the length but it's all relevant. A year ago this guy asked me out but I was unavailable so I said no. He kept asking why and after so many messages asking why not I just ignored him. Six months later i decided to contact him, just say...

A.   7 August 2008: Hi there, I think this guy is a jerk. Just stay away from him my dear. You will get over it, just need sometime. That guy does not deserve your love. Do not waste anymore time waiting or texting him. Its not worth it my dear. Move ... (read in full...)

I don't think he regrets sincerely what he did, he is only checking that I don't tell his wife of our affair!?

Q.   I am starting to move on now from my previous heartache. He's away but still contacting me asking if im alright and always reminding me that things will be alright soon. He always repeat to me that i could find much better than him and he really ...

A.   7 August 2008: You should move on, forget about him and change your number my dear. The more you hear from him, the more you get hurt. He is a freak! Stay away from him and fine someone who is single and honest. All the best wishes to you. ... (read in full...)

I have major jealously problems but he still carries on with other women. Help!

Q.   I have a majorr problem. im dating this guy, for almost 3 months now. he is a dancer, singer, and gets along with everyone. he is always positive, smiling and hates getting on peoples bad sides. he treats me so well i love it, but he also trea...

A.   7 August 2008: Hi! Poor lady.. I don't think he is the right man for you. His career requires him to stay pleasant, friendly and flirty somtimes and i understand it is quite hard for you to take it neither do I. You are not right for him my dear, unless h... (read in full...)

Is five months long enough to get over my ex? I'm with a new man but I keep thinking of him.

Q.   Is five months long enough time to get over an ex? I was with my ex about a year and we were engaged. I met my current boyfriend five months after me and my ex broke up. Everything was great at the beginning, now I keep having thoughts of my ex even ...

A.   7 August 2008: Hi, I dont know what cause you to break up with you ex but i believe you still have an unfinished feeling with him. There is something you probably need to talk to him in order to have a happy/fair ending/closure. That happened to me, i broke ... (read in full...)

I've been having sexual thoughts about my stepdad. How do I tell him and my mother?

Q.   i have been haveing some sexual thoghts about my stepdad who is in his 40s, how can i approach him and my mother about this before i do somthing stupid?...

A.   7 August 2008: Well, how about you keep a bit of distant from him. You dont have to tell him or your monther. You could talk a best friend if you've got one. Sweetie, please don't let your feeling control your life. You are so young. Be strong and talk to frien... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of ten months, likes to be with his friends more than me, when we get together he makes me cry or gets me mad, I am thinking of dumping him, would you?

Q.   SO I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WHO IS INTO HIS HOMIES MORE THEN ME I MEAN LIKE WE HARLY TALK AND WHEN WE DO HE AKES ME CRY OR GETS E MAD WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 10 MONTHS and I DONT EVEN GET TO SEE HIM BUT LIKE I SAID HE ALWAYS ENDS UP GETTING ME MAD ...

A.   7 August 2008: Hi, I understand its diffult feeling! Has he ever told you that he loves you?? -- I think what you should do now is be straight forward and tell how you feel. -- Sometime, he does not mean to hurt you or does not realized his action hurts yo... (read in full...)

We're both married and both completely and utterly besotted by each other.

Q.   I have fallen in love with someone and don't know if I should ruin everyone's lives by going off with him. We're both married and both completely and utterly besotted by each other. We are not having an affair but he wants to leave his wife for us ...

A.   7 August 2008: Hi, I understand, this is not an easy decision to make. But one thing you did not really tell us what is the problem with your husband. Why don't you try this write down the pros and cons, that could be very helpful in your decision making. ... (read in full...)

Did I ruin my chances by sleeping with him too soon?

Q.   I met this guy who's 24, im 21. he is such good fun and we get on so well, the only problem is i slept with him second time i met him. I have seen him twice after this just to meet for drinks. He texts me most days or calls. But he hasnt asked me ...

A.   6 August 2008: Hi, He has a child?? Is he married? - If he is! Please leave him alone. He is using you for fun and he thinks that was just a one night stand! To answer to your question: this is my opinion, having sex with a man so quickly is not right. Th... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and alone. What should I do?

Q.   hi, i'm 20 and i've been sleeping with my ex boyfriend, who i love, hoping he would want to go out with me again. i've only just found out i'm pregnant, and told him but he says he doesn't want me or the baby and not to contact him. i unfortunatly...

A.   6 August 2008: Hi sweetie, You have done what you should have was telling your bf you are pregnant. He is irresponsible person and does not deserve to be the father of you baby. Its time, talk to your family! I believe they are there for you and they wil... (read in full...)

I don't love my husband any more. Should I leave him?

Q.   I have been with my husband for 11 yrs and I think I've made a mistake marrying him and did so too young. He is a lovely man - kind, trustworthy, caring, intelligent... The problem is I just don't love him anymore and sometimes find myself almo...

A.   6 August 2008: Hi, i have had the same experience. Got marriage in a very young age without really understood what is love and family. It just did not work out. I broke up with him after 7 yrs. From my experience, i should say! please LEAVE him if you dont LOV... (read in full...)

Nice guys always finish last?

Q.   Hi all, This question has been tearing me apart time and time again. Please bear with me, as this will be a long post. Is it true that, no women will ever want to be with a nice guy? I don't consider myself 100% nice, I am not overly r...

A.   6 August 2008: Hi, you seem a nice gentl man. I think you the type of man that most women wish to marry with. Be positive and be patience. At some point, you will meet a woman who appreciates and respect your personality/behaviour. I wish you the best of ... (read in full...)

How can I make my beautiful young sexy wife agree to have sex with my friends?

Q.   I have been married since 3 years and have a 2 yr. old son. There is something going on inside me, which turns me on. My wife is very beautiful, young, sexy, but she is a homely girl. I want to see my wife having sex with 2-3 guys at a time in front ...

A.   6 August 2008: I am terribly shocked! positive answer??? Huh...... I suggest you go see psychiatric! you need help! or you should be ready to loose your wife. You should respect her decision. No means NO. If you want her to do that for your fantasy! you don'... (read in full...)

I was going to meet an online guy for sex and I think my boyfriend is controlling!

Q.   hi,i need help. my bf is jealous and controling. For over one year he is constantly finding my dating profiles and complains. He has given me an ultimatum,which i find petty. All i do is have sexy chats and send each other pics. I was going to meet ...

A.   6 August 2008: You'd better leave him alone for goodness sake! you are sick! Do you know this word "honesty"??? if you are a in relationship with someone, you should stay honest, if thing does work out, then leave. Don't hurt, Dont cheat! grow up lady!!! ... (read in full...)

He doesn't know I love him. What should I do? He has a girlfriend.

Q.   I am love with my friend and i dont know how to tell him. we already have a sexual relationship, but he has a girlfriend. What should i do about this? i am single and we have been seeing each other for about 3 years....

A.   5 August 2008: Hey, don't wait! Bring it on! Tell him and get him to answer, you or her? He is using you and probably his girlfriend too. Its not right to be with a man who keep cheating on his girlfriend. ... (read in full...)

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