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I'm in love but don't know how to take the next step, I'm really scared to mess this up so what do I do now??

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Question - (28 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *h oh writes:

im not sure wt the next stp is....

i mean i talk to her online, shes 16 im 14...

i think about her ALL of the time and i mean ALL of the time...

i kno we arent ready for a relationship even if she loved me - i dont see how she could love me tho...

i fell inlove with her , but ive onlie seen her 4 times

its strange but who can explain love eh?

but wt do i do

her bro in law is my uncle and he sez i should tell her and meet up with her

but everytime i try it always goes wrong, and i havent even got her numb yet becoz im too scared...

i onli have one shot at it and i absolutely cant mess this up PLLLLLZZZZ HELP!! wt do i do nxt

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A female reader, mama2three United States +, writes (31 December 2007):

mama2three agony auntIs there something you guys would enjoy doing, that can be fun and friendly? Like getting ice cream or something or getting lunch together. I'm *trying* to think of what I was in to when I was 14-16, but it's just not coming to me! Maybe ask your uncle for some advice on what to do, how to get to see her face-to-face to tell her you like her?

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A male reader, uh oh United Kingdom +, writes (29 December 2007):

uh oh is verified as being by the original poster of the question

well i already knew that i had to tell her the question is how i get her to come and meet up rarther than telling her online as she would appreciate it more if i told her to her face...also i dunno how to ask for her number...

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A female reader, mama2three United States +, writes (28 December 2007):

mama2three agony auntYou have to be sincere, let her know how you feel! Trust me, you're not the only person whose ever been in this situation. If you really admire her as much as you do, then you should tell her so!

Otherwise, how is she ever supposed to know how you feel? Your feelings can't be reciprocated if you don't give her the chance, so tell her how you feel!

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A female reader, xXxkishesxXx United Kingdom +, writes (28 December 2007):

what i think you need to do, is ask her out to the cinema..not even like a proper 'date' but just 'oh i really wanna see this film, do you want to come with me' kind of thing

and then say something like 'can i have your number so we can organise times and stuff'

that way you have her number, you get to go tto the cinema on a date, and you never know what might happen next!

good luck!x

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