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writes:I apologise if this is long and confusing as it is very confusing for me. I started college in august and have made some good friends but i got a crush on one of the guys on my course and i just kinda thought it would go away. Anyway it hasnt and i really like him he's funny and charming but he can be quite immature and childish, hes 26 and i'm 21 but in the way we act i probably act older than him. He'd gotten really drunk and insulted a family member and i told him that even though i liked him it was out of order, long story short he apologised to my family member and me and said he felt very guilty because he was drunk and couldnt remember. He also said that he knew i liked him but that he was seeing someone else and that relationships in classes arent the best incase something goes wrong, which i agreed with and i told him that even though i liked him i wasnt that sure i wanted anything from him and that my feelings would fade, this is when it got weird he seemed really hurt when i said that and i've been told by his friends that he's not seeing anyone and hasnt since last year so i'm thinking it was just a way to let me down gently, but i get confused as this was last month yet he still flirts with me openly and i catch him staring at me none of us are quite sure whats going on in his head so my question in all this confusion is do you think he may secretly like me? enjoy the attention? or is just confused himself? thanks in advance :)
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reader, 90'sbaby  +, writes (23 November 2011):
I know where you coming from a guy flirted with me all the time. and i got attached and it hurts so bad. I would just let him go its so hard not too i would just stop flirting with him and avoid him comlpletly but i hope all you find someone better than him because he's just an a**hole
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 Maybe he was looking for you to fight for him. It sounds like he is enjoying the attention either way. Maybe he said this in a moment of madness who knows. If he continues to flirt with you then just say to him his girlfriend wouldn't be to happy at him flirting with you and see what he has to say about that. Maybe he is just naturally flirty, but is not interested in anything at the moment. He sounds like a very hard person to read so I can see why you would be confused. I guess the only way of finding out is to ask him directly.
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