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He thought my friend was me testing him

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Question - (1 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ourtneyybrookee writes:

I've been like together with this guy for almost 2 months. Today while I was driving my best friend started a conversation with him. After a little bit she gave me back the phone and didn't say anything. I know how she can be so I texted him asking if she was mean. He said no that she asked him question and he answered. So I said what was it and he responded well nothing really I think it was a test so still confused I asked what and he said well to be honest I think it was you pretending to be her. I was dumbfounded so I read their convo. She asked him if he really liked me or was just using me for hookups, he did reply no but this was about 4ish today and he hasn't spoken to me since. I think he really thinks I lied to him. I reallyyyyy like this guy and I don't know what to do! :(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010):

Dump him, if he has that little trust of you, you can do better.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (1 October 2010):

chigirl agony auntThis is very silly. Try calling him and say you are telling him the truth, and either way it would be a silly thing to get worked up over.

Perhaps he doesn't bother too much with it though, but couldn't reply back to you for other reasons? So give him a quick call and ask why he didn't reply back and say that you are being honest and hear of he takes it. Then laugh about it all, kiss and make up. It is the beginning of a relationship, and maybe thats why he's unsure about who were texting him, seeing as he doesn't feel he knows you yet.

Probably he had other girls "test" him and got used to it. I don't think you should be offended. Just get it straight.

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