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*nna022
writes:I met a man online, and we clicked right away. We had our first date, and things went beautifully. On our second date, my family showed up, and needless to say it was awkward. The next day he called and cancelled our third date, stating his dad was really sick and stressed because of work and that was the last time I talked to him until he texted me and told me to leave him alone because he is physically and emotionally drained... what do I do?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 Send him a get well message and wished him a speedy recovery.Period!
If he calls again, then you may give him another chance. If he does not call, then you can say goodbye to him.
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reader, Anna022 +, writes (10 February 2008):
Anna022 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much everyone for your advice...I kind of knew all along I needed to move on...what a jerk, eh!
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 I think I would be pretty freaked out by a date who was already introducing me into the family on the second meeting, this is generally a huge step, and he may have felt you were moving too soon too fast, but there's nothing you can do about it now but find someone else.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (10 February 2008):
 He just didn't like you as much as you liked him and used that as an exscuse to get out without hurting your or admitting it. He is basically being a coward, I'm sure you can do better. And from now on I don't recommend finding partners over the net, everybody I know that has done that, things haven't ended well. Things fell apart near the start or later on because there were major incompatibilities that were not noticed until they had been with each other for a while. You will find someone that treats you like you deserve to be treated with time. So don't let it get you to down.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 Leave him alone and move on. He's not physically or emotionally drained: he just chickened out. This is not the man you want, dear.
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