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anonymous
writes:To start off, I really like this guy. We have been talking now for over a month, almost 2. He hasn't dated anyone in almost a year. Every day and night we text, constantly and he tells me the sweetest stuff. He says he likes me, but he is not sure if he wants to date yet, or that it will be soon. That was about a month ago. I trust him and we have kissed since he said that. We miss each other a lot when we don't see each other during the week. I'm so confused on what to do. Others say he is playing me, which he could be but I hope not. I don't know what to do, he doesn't seem to have the same "chase" he once did but he won't seem to let me go either... I want to know if this is something I should stick with, and if so what do I do to show that I want to date, soon, before I loose hope and move on. I want to move on but he always pulls me back with something he says. We have not had sex nor will we, we both are waiting on marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): I'd be cautious.
I agree with what the others are saying, I think he most likely is a player.
If you want to have a fun night with him, you could let him keep trying to reel you in. I'd be surprised if his 'waiting for marriage' deal wasn't negotiable.
I wouldn't expect a relationship, however.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 April 2010):
I must admit I do think you're being played. He 'doesn't want to date yet', but is happy to string you along and kiss you. Be aware. I think you would do better to move on now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): I think you should wait it out go for your gut feelings. If other's think he is playing you sometimes when your involved with someone others around you can see what you don't see. Come out and ask him don't play games with me tell him to tell you how he feels. Tell him that your will move on if he doesn't. Having someone to string you along is horrible.
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