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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now, he has many female friends and is a real sosial butterfly. He has his female friends over to stay occasionaly or goes over to stay over at there house's am I odd if this bothers me? He's forever on his phone and on msn! I do trust him but contstantly feel like second best as now that am his girlfriend it's like he doesn't need to make the effort to please me he'd rather please everyone else around him. When were out together it feels like am out alone and he constantly says to me, well who am I coming home to in the end and i'll be able to give you hugs later on! I want to feel more special to him but what can I do?
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (21 December 2007):
Okay if i were you,i'd not take it lightly coz he's behaving weird.I'm a guy and admit most friends of mine are female but i don't allow them to sleep over,no matter how wasted they are.I actually don't bring them home as much.I don't even sleep by their places.That's what i call dysfunctional behaviour in a relationship,which you need to address as soon as possible.I don't think he's gay at all,he's just scared of commitment,Pronto! Tell him to shape up or shape out.You deserve better,dear.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (21 December 2007):
 So all that time he is spending nights at girls homes, and they are spending the nights with him...and nothing is going on.
Is your boyfriend secretly gay and using you as a cover?
I think you are odd for believing his story. If he is a man, he is wanting sex with women, not friendships.
If they are just friends, why aren't you spending the nights at his place with him when they are over?
I was a player too...but I never lied to women like this.
I think you already know what the answer is, you would just rather ignore it.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, rcn  +, writes (21 December 2007):
 Demand better treatment. If he wants this relationship he needs to treat you in a way that makes you feel special. Never settle for less from anyone in the way you desire to be treated.
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