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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and this lad have been planning to get together for a few months now. we talked about it face to face and text about it a lot. but three days ago he slept with another girl (who already has a boyfriend!) and this made me see him in a different light. even though were not seeing each other, i still feel cheated in a way. why has he done this? how do i know where i stand? X
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 April 2008):
There are two sides to this....
On the one hand - he had commited to you. He liked you and you liked him. So for him to go off with someone for sex, that should make you ask if you want to be with him.
On the other hand - you were only planning to get together, you weren't official, so technically he was a free man. If he wants to go off and be a girlfriend stealing idiot then he is free to.
I think the advice I would give is not to plan to get together with a boy. You are surely either together or not. It shouldn't involve contracts. You aren't buying a house.
On the other hand, now at least you know what kind of boy he is. Personally I wouldn't want to go out with anyone who wasn't 100% mad about me. This boy obviously isn't mad about you if he can sleep with other people.
It's up to you hun, and it is a difficult one.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, I care  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 Stay away from him he sounds like trouble to me and you don't need the heart ache.
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