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writes:Hey everyone ... Happy Thanksgiving :DI have a question, am I wrong for ending things with him?I've been talking to This Guy.. he's 25 I'm 20. I don't date guys with kids because its way too much drama for me. But I gave him a chance, as long as I don't see drama. Plus I don't have a kid myself and Don't plan on to. So wit the new Guy, we get alone good, we talk, joke and We both like to laugh. But I don't want to talk to him on a relationship level. Why? Because his way of getting to know each other is just him trying to come to my place and in my room to watch TV?! And when I told him no for the 5th time I just think he should delete my number. I asked him why haven't he asked me out on a date and he said I have to earn that?! Excuse me? Lol! So than I said we can be friends because your not the one for me. Than he said well how about I come To his place and watch a movie? I said no! Than he got upset. I think he's a loser and very stupid if he think I would do something sexual with him very soon. Than just last night he called me asking me what was I doing? And I told him I was looking for something to eat. Why? Do you want to bring me some taco bell? ( Which is very cheap!!!!! ) and his answer was only if I come chill with him with a skirt on???? Who says that??? Smh!! So do you guys think I'm wrong for telling him to leave me the hell alone? We can be friends if he want too but if he don't than I don't really care ...
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (27 November 2011):
 Hahaha, a beef chalupa for a blowjob.
So glad you got rid of him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you ladies for answering my question!
He called Me today, And me not knowing the number I answered and he said ill bring u some taco bell if I have sex with him..
After I got Really rude with him, he go the point. So yes he wanted 1 thing which I already knew.
So thank you again!!
P.s. your comments made me laugh lol
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 November 2011):
 he's scummy I wouldn't even be friends with him.
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reader, cmarieky +, writes (25 November 2011):
I applaud u for being so wise. You absolutely did the right thing by pushing him away. He seems like a person who only sees u as an naive opportunity for sex, however you are far from naive. Keep this discernment about guys it'll spare u a lot of grief down the road. Hope ur Thanksgiving went well.....have a nice weekend.
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reader, supermum  +, writes (25 November 2011):
 Yeah I would run a mile to be honest. You should always trust your gut, and if this is sending off alarm bells, I would leave it.
Send him a text saying you no longer wish to have contact with him and ask him to delete your number and not contact you any more. From that point on make a note of everything he sends but no matter what he says or does do NOT respond to him. You then have a case for harrassment if things go sour.
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reader, pinkkitty23 +, writes (25 November 2011):
SCREAMS DOOSH BAG!!! You seem like a smart girl you already caught the red flags. Any man who doesn't want to smoooze ya and take you out for dinner and insist on you going to his place is a looooooser. Taco Bell!! Girl you deserve better DELETE away !!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 November 2011):
No! This guy is really skeezy, why do you even want to be friends with? He's just trying to make a cheap pass at you.
Don't enable him anymore. Delete his number and ignore all incoming texts from him. He'll take the hint.
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