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writes:Dipping my toes into the single life after a 21 year realationship..ouch, its harsh out there ! I'm on this site and a guy checked me out, we started emailing and then finally we did the phone thing. Its been 9 months although he lives 2 states away, he flies all over for his job, anytime I ask or suggest a time for us to meet, there is aways something that takes up his time, I'm confused cause he talks to me like he likes me but doesn't want to meet me. He tells me to be patient ??? for how long? Sould I email him and tell him that this can't possabily work or do I ignor him ? Thank-you Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 September 2011):
 The only waiting I'd be doing is at the stoplight, time to move on, this guy is not the one.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (14 September 2011):
 I would just ignore him from now on.
He has shown you that he does not take you seriously. You do not really know him. He does not really know you.
The two of you might be feeling faux chemistry induced by what you think is a romance.
Date locally. Find someone that you can actually meet on a regular basis and get to know with frequent interaction.
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (14 September 2011):
 Hello,
It is incredibly hard to get back into the dating game after such a long time, so good for you getting back into it!
I'm sure this man is a nice chap and that you have interesting conversations, but if he was into you - wild horses would stop him meeting you in person.
After 9 months, if he hasn't met you I don't think he is going too - what's more, if you do meet him how long before the second date?
I think it's time to find someone closer to home, who can lavish you with attention both on and off the phone
Best of luck
Kitties
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2011): He's playing you like a fiddle my dear. If it had promise then he would be really eager to meet, and that is how you would like it. You don't want some reluctant lover do you? Chances are he's lied about himself and/or is married. Some people are just looking for a bit of online company, massaging of ego etc. Look for something that becomes real asap. Otherwise you are just wasting your time. x
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