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female
age
51-59,
*andyv
writes:Hi all, I broke up with my bf about 7 months ago now, because he had some huge problems, he is a guy with an ex who is bipolar and had custody of his 3 kids...... he lost them back then..... so I let him alone to sort out his problems, but I was also heartbroken then too. Since then he has come back, we spent lots of time together, then about a week ago he said he didn't wan't a gf... That hurt, he's still coming around, but I've been cold to him..... what does he want from me? I'm very confused. Thnx..... advice appreciated......... Also, he sketched a picture of me last week and signed it "I Love You Sandy" ..... I just don't understand it, but don't want to push the issue by nagging and being pushy......
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (16 May 2007):
 He wants sex. He comes around, writes to you he likes you, but tells you he does not want a girlfriend. So basically, he wants you for sex. -FBK
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reader, cd206  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 I'm not surprised he reacted negatively to the idea of having a girlfriend like he did because his bad experience probably made him lump all women together as being as bad as each other and he took that out on you. I don't think he's over that pain yet but I think he feels guilty about the way he treated you and wants to be your friend. Continue being friendly towards him and let him come back to you when he's ready.
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