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*ecka
writes:i started chatting to a man on the net over 14 months ago we had a fantastic friendship then we met after 14 monts we had a great weekend no sex we just had a fantastic weekend he broke his leg over 6 weeks ago he live about 400 miles away from me he wont let me go there and he couldnt get here i told him my deepest darkest secret he was great but i think i will loose his friendship over it as someone gave me a disease over 9 years ago who i was in a relationship with now i have discovered he is chatting to women on the net we are not rude or share sexual texts or phone convosations he has been distant towards me b4 but he said i was the one and he does have respect for me and says i have a place in his heart can some one tell me what is going on as i dont have a clue thank you
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reader, becka +, writes (10 August 2007):
becka is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI hear what your saying and thank you for the reply but he does have issues there his ex is constantley making threats about stopping him from seeing his twins and hes just done 7 months in iraq he does talk to me every day via phone or text he has even said he will come here for a family birthday barique to meet my family i dont know if he has tuns of respect for me and not the ones he is talking to he is rairley on the internet mabe he is scared as i am
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): There's 400 miles between you, and he won't allow you to visit him. Not only that, but you say he's talking to other women on the internet.
It sounds as though he has enjoyed talking with you over the last 14 months, and did have a good time when you met for a weekend. That is most likely what he meant when he said you do have a place in his heart. HOWEVER, long distance relationships are never easy (do-able, but quite difficult. My guess is he doesn't consider it practical to pursue a relationship with you.
Sorry to say it, but that's what happens sometimes. Would you have had a better chance if you both lived a lot nearer? Maybe, but its hard to say.
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