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*iza999
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. We have become such great friends and I confided in him that it had been 5 years since I had slept with a man My past relatioships have been with women bu that is over now. We have been intimate only a few times and only because I made the moves. He has not touched me sexually and falls asleep right after he is finished.He has no problem with erection and enjoys the way I touch him but why is he not trying to have sex or pleasure me as well? He has a great balance between fem and masc qualities but now I am wondering if he is gay? I know he likes me but maybe not sexually? Or does it intimidate men knowing I was with women? sigh I brought it up once and he got upset with me saying i was being 'retarded' but nothing really answered my concern...is he just not that into me?
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reader, Liza999 +, writes (10 June 2010):
Liza999 is verified as being by the original poster of the question He must have cought my thoughts wow for the first time he put on the moves last night and told me how much he wanted me Phew We can interpet so much and be so wrong I am so happy right now :) Funny thing is I actually prefer being in control and have a hard time letting my guard down hmmm its not getting what we want is it ...it's wanting what we get!
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reader, Liza999 +, writes (9 June 2010):
Liza999 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you :) I can't stand a guy always glomming on (if thats a word ;) but isnt 4 months a long time sleeping next to each other and not initiating anything I think Im gonna assume that Im being bias and that he is just shy and hop on lol Thanks guys!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 June 2010):
It's more likely he's very shy about it.
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