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writes:Ive been with my husband for 8 yrs... All of a sudden he found an old GF on Facebook... He talked to her 2 weeks and decided to ddrop everything for her, he says things are going good for them and they get along good.. house and all. It has been a full month already.. ive moved out and lately hes been texting more and more.. not really talking about us but just out lives in general.. today he called me to take him some keys and i woke him up to give em the keys and he smiled... He hugged me and played with my hair, caressing my face and hands.. for atlease 30 min.. I said i was leaving and he said, not yet.. After all i left and he text me : I hope I didnt confuse you.. I miss you from time to time... What does he mean?? can anyone te,ll me what hes thinking?
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reader, Cheeks +, writes (11 September 2010):
 I'm so sorry he did that to you. He's an incredible asshole for leaving you like that but he's an evil asshole for stringing you along. Don't let him touch you,he should have lost that privilege when he walked out. And when he's baiting you in like that, he's only concerned with himself. Whatever his motives are, he's proven he's a stinking pile of shit but I do understand you may have hope he'll go back to you but really, how could you ever relax knowing what he's capable of? I just hope nothing like this happens to you ever again. And by letting him go now, it will help ensure it never does. Good luck.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 September 2010):
 First of all, I'm really sorry he dropped you for some old flame. I'm sure your guts have been churning ever since. I know how easy it would be to slip back into letting him get physical with you (in any capacity), but make no mistake. You're not HIS anymore.
His text to you, "I hope I didn't confuse you. I miss you from time to time" is extremely callous. The first part of that meant that he still doesn't really want you back, but since you were in his presence, he's still physically attracted to you.
Do not let him touch you. Don't run favors for him. Get him out of your life, because even if he has extreme regret and wants to take you back, what makes you think that he won't drop you again for some other woman?
You deserve the affection of a good man, one who thinks about you when you're gone as well as when you're around.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (10 September 2010):
 I hope you divorced him..Come on rekindling an old flame, dropping a wife and house to reminisce on the good old days. I smell a mid life crisis...but if that's what he wants by all means let him have it...just don't get caught up in his boulshit anymore...When he tells you he misses you then he that's what he means. Don't play into this he's trying to have his girlfriend and you. Stay away, keep your distance. Next time he asks you to drop something off, tell him you'll do it on your watch and stick it in the mailbox, or in a bag on the doorstep.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 September 2010):
 First off I would have told him to pick up his own damn keys, then left them for him in a nice steamy pile of dog shit. Who care's what he's thinking, you sure a heck shouldn't. He's trying to play you, don't fall for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): What he means is he'd like to have sex with you whenever he pleases and if you could be his beckon call girl that would be cool too. He is an ass.
File for a divorce with fault for his abandonment and unfaithfulness.
Move on and try to find a better situation for yourself, and next time he asks you to do something for him, tell him to f-off and do it himself.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 ??? He told you what he was thinking... he misses you from time to time.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 He left you for his old GF, my advice is to change your phone number, and get on with your life.
I know it can be hard, after all he was your husband, but you deserve someone who won't run off with someone else.
xx
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