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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why is he doing this? why won't he leave me alone? ?There's this guy that I use to like a lot. We use to work together (not anymore) he'd stare at me all the time and only flirted with me and ignored all the other girls so I thought he was into me and I gave him my number.He'd text and call me then he stopped all of that and stopped answering my calls. Whenever he'd makes plans for a date he'd just not show up.He's done it so many times now. I don't even like him anymore. Last week he said he'd come take me out as I was getting ready he texted asking why he's not heard from me. I told him why. He didn't show up that day either.Is been a week now and he's texted me all week even though I don't reply to any of his texts. Why won't he leave me alone?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 He won't "leave (you) alone" because YOU are not writing back to him to tell him to "...f*ck-off, I'm not interested in your stupid games..." .... I'm sure that, once you do that, this question will disappear.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2012):
Just send him one text, telling him to (put whatever feels good here)- **** off and go play someone else.
Until you do he will carry on because YOU have let him play you so far,for so long,its just a stupid game to him
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Why do you care?
You don't like him anymore
he's clearly not trustworthy and is toying with you
delete his info
block his number
move on with your life
WHY folks do something is the theme today on DC and it DOES NOT MATTER WHY someone does something to you if you don't like it you don't have to deal with it.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Maybe because you have not told him to leave you alone? He obviously likes playing games, and because you reply every now and then he thinks he still has his claws into you, so he knows he can keep playing these games.
If you send him a text saying very clearly you are not interested and you want him to stop texting you, then he should get the message.
Ignoring him isnt working, so tell him very clearly to leave you alone.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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