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He keeps flaking on our plans but then he keeps on coming back a few days later. Why would he do this?

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Question - (1 April 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2016)
A female Turkey age 30-35, *arnes66 writes:

I recently had a guy who flaked on me when we made plans to hang out.

We made plans to meet up when he gets off work at 3pm but I didn't hear from him until 9pm -he just said sorry something came up.

Then he texted me 2days later again apologizing and asking how he can make it up to me. I decided to let it slide then he suggested plans to get together again but No time/location had been set, then incidentally stopped responding to me before the date was set in stone.

I called him asking for confirmation but he never responded , so I sent him a text asking we're still on,he responded few hours later and just said "lol"

I just took it as lack of interest on his part so I deleted his number .

To my surprise, he just texted me 4 days later and said "hey",like nothing happened. I didn't respond but I'm perplexed why he keeps coming back after blowing off. Any thoughts?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (1 April 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntHe is messing you around and seems to think it is funny, sounds like he has not matured yet, I agree with Honeypie block his number he is just wasting your time.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 April 2016):

Honeypie agony auntInstead of just deleting his number... block it.

The guy isn't serious and honestly don't give a flying fart about you or what you think.

Time-waster is about the NICEST thing I can call him.....

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