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writes:I split up with my boyfriend of three months a few weeks ago, which I was glad of. He now keeps asking me if he was any good at doing sexual things with me (it was his first time). Should I lie and say he was good or should I tell him the truth which is that I would have got alot more pleasure out of watching paint dry than having him between my legs? - He was awful!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): lol but you should tell him and tell him what he was doing wrong and how to make it better for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2006): listen, if he sucked, you should tell him he sucked. i mean, it sounds like he was pretty terrible, and the poor boy needs to learn somehow. i would definitely tell him he wasn't very good. but i'm really straight forward.
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (4 August 2006):
 The last reply was pretty good, dont tell it like that:-P unless you wanna destroy his self esteem in which case it would be a good way to go!Point out the parts that sucked and maybe tell him how might have improved. Telling him he was great when he wasn't would just boost his self esteem real high and you probably dont want to do that. Imagine if he starts bragging :-O
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (4 August 2006):
 Maybe be a bit diplomatic and see if you cant point him in the right direction. You say he was awful, try and word it that it would have been better if he had done it this way or that... if you dont tell him he will never know and will think that what he is doing is okay. Just kind off give him some pointers, you will know which bits were crap, so maybe diplomatically tell him what he could have done differently. The thing is it might not just have been him, there were two of you having sex and if he didnt know he was doing it wrong and you didnt tell him how could he change it ? Its about communication, so maybe you should have worked it out together, or you two were just not compatible sexually, things that he did with you may not have worked with you but somebody else may have liked it, but if he was really that bad then i guess it would be nice if you could let him know so that he can at least try and make some changes and be able to improve.
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