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writes: I met my boyfriend online 8 months ago, we live in differnt states. We finally met and had a great time. We haven't seen each other in about 6 months, but we would make sure we talk everyday. All of a sudden out of the clear blue sky he says that his friends (whom I've never met) are claiming that he's in love with me. After that conversation he has become very distant by not calling or even sometimes not returning my phone calls. I don't understand why. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2006): I would suggest you go to www.lovetactics.com and start reading and listening to the free material. I don't believe this situation is not as straightforward as it seems. You have to be careful if you confront him, that you do not come across needy, but still have him feel understood.
And DONT PANIC!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2006): sounds like maybe that was his way of confessing to you that he loved you without having to be really straight forward. did you say that you loved him back in any way, or anything? or did you just laugh and change the subject? because if you seemed like you didn't care, that may be why he's backing away. he might feel embarrassed by your 'rejection.' anyway, good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2006): It sounds to me like this guy is trying to prove to his friends and to himself that he is not in love with you. Call him up and ask him what has turned him so cold. You deserve to be treated better, and not strung along by some random guy who promises to make you his one and only "someday." I think it would be best for you to find someone who is a little more into you. Talk to him first, though. Ask him all the things you want to know before you make any decisions. I hope everything works out okay. I wish you the best of luck. Stay strong!
~RJGirl
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