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He just wants to be friends but I'm pregnant with his baby.....how do I get him back?

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Question - (1 October 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2010)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i want my boyfriend back but he wants to be just friends but i'm having his child. he broke up with me before summer. how do i get him back...

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A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Cayman Islands +, writes (1 October 2010):

followtheblackrabbit agony auntThere's no formula for getting someone back or making them want or love you...if there was, Brad Pitt would be married to 92% of the female population...I know it's a rough place, carrying this man's baby and not having him but, there's not much you can do to change that. Take his friendship, you both share a baby and who knows? Maybe he will return to you in the future. There are men who (feeling trapped by oncoming fatherhood) leave the woman in search of freedom and "come back" when ready. And maybe he won't, but you will have someone to love you unconditionally, to hold on to you and inspire you to be the best woman you can be-your baby will never leave you. No matter what, you will always be his/her mother. Wish you all the best...

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (1 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntI'm afraid if his mind is made up then there is nothing you can do to change it, you just have to put your mind in to preparing for your baby's arrival and hope that he will financially support you, sorry that you are in this perdicament but nobody can make him change his mind but himself.

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A female reader, misLadYd.. South Africa +, writes (1 October 2010):

misLadYd.. agony auntdid he break up with you after you told him about the baby?if so then he is so selfish.you have to tell him how you feel thou because being friends with him will make you cry evry night.try to work things out and maybe he will come to his senses and after the baby is born he will be there.so dont worry to much.you wil get him back.gd luck

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