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He is obsessed with me... I don't know what else to do

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Question - (6 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2010)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have known this guy for 14 years and he has ALWAYS been in love with me... Warts and all! I cant do anything wrong in his eyes and believe me I have done some dodgy sh*t haha!

He has only ever had 1 serious girlfriend and even then he was still in love with me and even told me while he was with her!! I have absolutely no feelings for him at all and do not feel I should settle!!

He is in the Army and I only ever see him during the Christmas Holidays... You would think after a year of no minimal contact he would be over it!! The other nite I had 2 missed calls, 2 voicemails from him so I texted him back "what?" and he called me drunk out of his mind saying he wanted to come over. I said no, I was tired then hung up... He called me 18 times, left 10 voice messages and sent me 5246 texts!!! I didnt respond and I havent spoken to him since... Drunken FOOL!!

I find myself having to be mean to him... Ive told him SOOOO many times I AM NOT INTERESTED... I just dont know what else to do!! I just wish he would get over me... He gets jealous of me and a mutual friend of ours because we get along and sometimes hook up... He tells me hurtfull things that our mutual friend has said about me that arent true...

If he got married, had kids and I suddenly said "I want to be with you" I have no doubt he would desert his wife and kids to be with me...

Fark... I must AWESOME!! Hahaha!!

What else can I do!?!?

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A male reader, OAKWOOD Korea - Democratic People's Republic +, writes (6 January 2010):

Obsessed is the word because you dont love him...

be honest and leave him alone. have pity on the guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

Get a restraining order against him.Show him you are serious.He will definitely stop.

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