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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and i feel like we're good at the moment. There's just one problem- he's turning 18 soon (he's a year older than me) and going on holiday to a clubbing island in Greece with all his mates. I'm very worried about him cheating on me and don't know whether to say anything. I wan't him to have a nice time but i just don't see why they have to be so exclusive and go to a place like that. I suppose i shouldnt worry about things that have not happend but i can't help it. Any advice would be helpful...
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reader, Just a girl... that raves every night! +, writes (28 June 2011):
The anonymous male reader is right. dont be sooo hung up about stuff. Enjoy life, do the same! go to greece, to Mykonos as Mizz Butterflies mentions and have a party. they aslo have the 10th best club in the world in Mykonos according to DJ Mag and its getting referbished as Retox puts it http://www.retoxmagazine.com/cavo-paradiso.html have fun girl, enjoy life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. I've realised that theres not much i can do so i'll just have to wait and see.
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 I live in Greece lol tell me where he's going to so I can keep an eye on him! JK!
Well,it depends on where he's going to. If it's Mykonos..thats the craziest island,full of parties,drunk girls and gay peeps! He will probably be too drunk to do anything.
If he goes to Santorini..beware cause Santorini is the "Newlyeds" island aka the place screams romance and love!
If he goes to an island like Paros or Skiathos...lots of greek students go there...looking for foreign guys to have fun with!
Chances are he will do something. 1 because his friends will think he's a coward if he doesnt. 2 because you will never find out 3 because he does wanna know what summer love(or fun) is ! and 4 because guys dont really gotta have feelings to do something sexual with a girl.They just do it cause it feels good.
What can you do? Let him know you're going on a vacation too. This will make him a tad jealous and wonder if you're going to cheat on him!
I feel that this will make you or break you. Sorry gal :-(
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (3 February 2010):
i think you should trust him as if he loves you he will not cheat on you who says sex drys up when your married and have kids does not have too you should not try to control a man ever
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Wakey-wakey - of COURSE he's gonna have sex - with any and everything that moves - that's the whole point of a blokes' holiday in Greece!
If you're in such a committed relationship, then why the hell is he going away without you?
Think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): You are both young and not married. As such, you do not have much of a commitment to your relationship yet. Don't get so hung up on trying to control and own him yet. That will happen after you get married, have some kids, and the sex dries up.You should expect that if the opportunity presents itself he will have sex this weekend. Just make it clear to him that he had better use protection.
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