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female
age
30-35,
*harmzx3
writes:Me and my husband been together for almost 2 years we have a baby of 1 year . I love him alot and always have respected him. Since I was pregnant he has always accused me of cheating on him even when I was carrying his son. I have never gave him no reason for him to think that way. He has hit me slapped me and calls me so many names and disrespects me . He says im a b**tc a h*e and thinks ive cheated on him with my own family members which are my uncles, cousins. Sometimes when he used to come from work he would always come smell me down there Im not happy at all Ive tried to live him but everytime I live I always come back because he tells me his going to change. He works and Im a stay at home mom everytime he coems from work he thinks i brought someone in the house (the landlord) and im cheatng on him with the lanlord and I sweared Im not . We always argue everyday over the same thing . Supposebly when he comes home he hears like someone is running thru the back door and thinks its a man when I know nobody has even been in my house .. My hair is falling due to the reason that Im breastfeeding and my hairs are everywhere.. He found a hair in the bed once and told me that , that wasnt my hair that it must be the landlord . I said of course not .. What can I do ?? He has broken a glass cup on my feet spit on my face .. Last night we was having a good time just talking and was talking about random stuff out of no where he brought up if I ever slept with my uncle and I said no he left to the room and I told him "Come here help me pick up the stuff" he didnt then I told him "I swear on my child I never have cheated on you" in spanish then he said that Ive said Ived cheated on you with the chinese meaning the (landlord) ive never said that .. He broke my laptop which cost $1100. What can I do ??
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 You need to protect yourself and your child. I agree that you need to leave him and dont give him any indication where you are going, I also agree you need to warn the landlord that this is what you are doing so that he is prepared if your husband comes looking for you.
I find the fact he smells your genital area when he gets home from work terribly disturbing.
Try this website: http://www.thehotline.org/
for help and advise
good luck!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 Ill tell you what you need to do and that is leave him now if you wont do it for your own sake then do it for your childs sake its not fair a baby in this atmosphere and if you love your child you will leave straight away and cut all contact with this man, he is abusive physically and mentally and he is never going to change he is trying to control you because he has such low confidence and this is not fair on you or your child he is insecure and he needs serious help before he gets better and am afraid he needs to do this away from you and your child. So you need to get out straight away before he harms you anymore or even your innocent child. Dont even tell him you are going write him a letter explaining you had to leave because you cant live like that anymore you are sick of being abused and you dont want your child to see this. Believe me young children pick up on the smallest of things and this could affect the rest of there lives, get out now alive while you can.
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