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female
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anonymous
writes:I know this might sound slightly petty but here goes...Ive been with my boyfriend for eight months. He has a full time job and I'm in six form. He's up early most days for work, and he always gives me a morning text and to see how i am, then he'll text me at dinner telling me about work and asking how college is etc. So basically he texts me every few hours, and I'll admit, he always texts me first, i dont think theres ever been a time where i have text him before he texts me.So today, no text. All day i have not heard from him or had a phone call from him, and i feel really sad. There's nothing i have done for him to be mad at so i don't understand it. Im too stubborn to text him now because i feel slightly annoyed that he hasn't bothered to text me. Do you think he's bored of me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): Hi,
I doubt very much he has got 'bored' with you after an eight month relationship, however he may be annoyed/upset that you never text him first, he is the one to start off the conversation. As he may feel slightly rejected for never getting texts form you first, he may be doing to you what you do to him. He is obviously upset and needs to show you how he is feeling and this is his way of doing so.
Text him.
The other solutions is that his phone has dies or he has left it at home or lost it and therefore cannot call, text or pick up your messages.
I am sure all will be fine and you will sort it out.
Good luck! Tell me how it works out
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 May 2009):
I think he's not bored of you but probably bored of the fact you make no effort.
Text him.
The poor lad probably has a migraine or the flu and is feeling rather hurt that you can't even be bothered to say "hi, how was your day?"
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): hi kellyo, i wrote the question. I took on board what u said, so i gave him a text. after an hour still no reply so i was getting anxious, i didn't want to ring him because i didn't know what i had done.
He phoned me back about 2 hours later, he lost his phone on the way to work and was working late that night, so i got all anxious for nothing lol. thanks
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reader, kellyO +, writes (11 May 2009):
 Hi Anom,
why not text or call him this time to see how he is.If you are in a relationship with anyone it shouldnt matter who text or call first as long as you are not the only one always calling.
Goodluck!!
kelly
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