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writes: please help me. I'm so annoyed. My bf arrived from overseas on Thursday, I haven't heard from him, hasn't called me, hasn't made plans to get together. While he was away, he expressed how much he loves me, and misses me etc etc, and now that We're in the same country, he hasn't even made the effort to call me, text me. I know his family is important but hell I'm his gf, his partner and it seems now as if I've been tossed aside as if I don't matter, I thought that I should matter.I still haven't heard from him,I know he hasn't seen his family for long, but I'm all of a sudden feeling ignored. I also don't want to send anything to not look desperate, what should i do? Play hard to get when I want to see him so badly, but why doesn't he show the same?Please help ladies, what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2006): I hope by now you have solved this problem. If it ever happens again, please make yourself beautiful and go out with your girlfriends, let him wonder where you are. If he still does love you, he'll come running after you.hope you are happy
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reader, nadine hillside +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
It's ok Like Phoebe said maybe he wants to looks decent and be organised before he see's you maybe he doesn't mean to give you the impression that he doesn't care about you because i'm sure he does there really is no need to worry. everything will unfold as time goes on. You will soon realise that he still loves you but you just couldn't see it.
Have you ever thought he might feel exactly the same as you do, maybe you should keep that in mind.But like i said don't worry because you love him and he loves you also by the sounds of it your relationship is strong.
Hope everything works out.Goodluck.
Nadine
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (15 April 2006):
 If it was me I would not be so understanding, yes he wants to see his family and he now has so why is he not in your arms.
I would not wait for him to contact me, I would go around to see him or at the very least ring him and say you want to see him, for heavens sake you are his girlfriend, so stand up for your self and tell him you have missed him and so tonigh would be a good time to meet up, if he says he is busy and suggests another night tell him you will let him know.
Ring him now!!
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (15 April 2006):
 Dear Reader,
I can tell by reading your problem you have a strong Relationship with your partner. Have you ever stopped to consider he might be trying to get himself organised. If he's been away for long, loads of people are going to want to see him. Maybe he is suffering from jet-lag? He wants to get himself together and look half way decent before he sees you again!
He could just not be calling you for the same reasons you've not called him. But you are in a Relationship with him, this should show you he wants to be with you so don't play hard to get and call him!
Don't feel unwanted. If he didn't want to talk to you or anything you would have got other signs from him or he would have broken up with you!
Hope this clears most of it up for you!
Good Luck and All The Best,
Phoebe
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