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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Everyone,i have been in a relationship for 9 months with my boyfriend and it has being pretty serious and we have through a lot of struggles like for example i come from a strict family and it took about 7 months to finally accept and respected our relationshipokay i have to admit like our 3rd month in our reationship i sexted a dude and he found out and it was a one day thing i mean i did it because he started working and he was never there you know we tried to fix it he started having trust issues with me and i couldnt blame him. from that day forth i was 110% faithful so it was our 8th month he came over my house but he left his phone at my house and he got a random text and i looked at it and we was sexting another girl and he was very descriptive of how he wants to have sexual encounters with her and i was so hurt we talked about it and he said he was never gonna do it again i mean i feel like i have trust issues now and recently i looked through his facebook account and he has talked to other girls for a couple months and i dont know how to confront him or what to do someone please helpp me!!!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 February 2012):
 sounds like neither of you is mature enough or ready for a serious relationship.
You started sexting with a guy because he was "working and never there"??? Honey that's REAL LIFE for adults...
I work a full time job..I go home and collapse... he works 60 hours a week... most week nights.. it's HI what's for dinner... and nap till bed time for me... he's not off sexting with others to stroke his fragile "I need attention" ego...
Will you EVER trust him again? every time a text message beeps in and he won't show you what will you think?
whenever he's not with you and does not answer his phone or call you what will you think....???
If you don't know how to confront him then you don't have a good strong solid trusting relationship and you should consider ending it.
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (10 February 2012):
 It's really unfortunate,if your bfriend is sexting every random girl,but you were the one who started the suspicion in the relationship,but at the same time you were honest to him,but he lacks that honesty which makes things worse...talk to him about this nonsense that he is doing,if he does act honest...good ..but keep your eyes open and if he ends up blaming you for the mess in his life..dump him,he is not worth it..hope i've been able to help you in the little way that i could..all the best
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (10 February 2012):
 I think you should break up with him. Even though you've both made your mistakes, you apologized for your sexting and didn't do it again. He did it and apologized, but yet he's still doing it. You have a right to be happy and you have a right to break up with someone if they give you their word and don't follow through with it. He only said those words to prevent any more arguments and not get caught. Be with someone who cares about you and you trust them because he doesn't care that much if he wasn't willing to stop.
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