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female
age
30-35,
*shelbs
writes:I had a good friend from a class. He has a girlfriend and I never ever thought of dating him or even liking him in that way. We were only friends. Then one night he was supposedly, very drunk, and he started texting me saying how he wanted to have sex, ect. I didn't really think anything of it, I thought he was just saying this because he was drunk. Apparently not, apparently, he started to say things like this when he was sober. I get very attached to people very fast. I started to become attached to him even though I didn't like him. I only liked the attention. Then he decided that he was being unfair to his girlfriend, so he broke it off with me. I was pretty upset because I had gotten attached. I'm trying to make him still want me but I don't know what to do. He's only interested in me when he's drunk or high.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Forget it. You said it yourself, you only liked the attention. And he did the right thing by breaking it off - it /was/ unfair to his girlfriend. Don't be the other woman - it'll never work out in your favour.
I do understand how easy it is to become attached to someone, I used to be the same way. But I've always found that if you become attached to someone quickly, with time, you will usually become unattached just as fast.
Try your best to move on. You'll probably be receiving the same kind of attention from other lads in no time - lads who are unattached, and sober.
Good luck!
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