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41-50,
*ueenbof3
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years on and off. during our off period of 6 months he got another woman pregnant, he did not tell me until we had been back together for three months, by that time the child was 2wks old. I feel very betrayed and even though we were apart he hid it from me for 3 months. we have been back together for over a year and I struggle every day with trust and commitment to him. I have tried very hard to forgive and be closer but we have grown apart, now I feel I am no longer a priority in his life, not because of his son but because of the distance that has grown. I'm not sure if I should continue to feel this pain of feeling rejected and betrayed and try to work it out or move on and true to find true happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Yes leave. There is the type of man you need out there somewhere.. and you will be much happier once you find him.
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (3 June 2009):
 No you get him to leave, kick his sorry ass out. Do not put up with this rubbish for one second longer - it will only get worse as the child grows older. Eventually he is going to want to go over there and you will be left on your own dealing with all these awful feelings. He is a liar and a cheat. How dare he make use of you in this way. I cannot believe you have been good enough to even try with this situation. Get rid asap.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 June 2009):
I'm not seeing any reason why you are still there.
Are you scared of change? Are you not a big fan of packing?
Neither are good reasons to stay in a relationship that clearly should have finished a good few years ago.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (3 June 2009):
 Im sorry this happened to you. Yes he is a liar and got back with you under false pretenses. You owe him nothing, and if he hid this from you, God knows what else he is hiding?
And just because it was nine months total, it either means he got this gal pregnant about the time you broke up?at the very least. More likely he got her pregnant before you two split up
I am sorry, but you shouldn't give this asswipe a second thought. Just kick this loser to the curb
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