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writes:Hi im a 14 year old guy and im scared that i wont lose my viginity! my best mate has already and iv come close and i kind of thought scince the last relationship another one would've revealed itself and nothing has! im wondering if it will for ages or ever will and i just feel that it would make our bond stronger too!!! HELP ME Reply to this Question
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (3 June 2009):
Your opportunities to have sex will increase in the future. I was a major geek in high school but became more appealing to women in my twenties so i wouldnt worry about it yet.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (3 June 2009):
 Sweetie, youre so young and you have the rest of your life ahead of you! Go out and enjoy yourself and eventually you will meet someone and things will happen on their own.
In the great circle of life it is not a race to see who loses their virginity first, so dont be in a hurry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Hnu you're only 14 shouldn't rush into these things.
when it's right it'll be right.
don't feel pressured by other people
hell i am 20 and still a virgin.
alot of my friends aren't but i don't do it just because...
i am waiting for someone special and i'll know it's right.
i'd rather wait and do it right than just have some random thing.
trust me you'll know when it's right.
and besdies you're a little under age.
but don't do it just because your friends do.
do it for when you want to do it and feel it's right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): Aww sweetie dont feel bad! You will lose it eventually x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 June 2009):
Burnt feet has got it right.
Just because you haven't found an underage girl who is willing to have cheap sex, doesn't mean that in a few years time when you have grown up and figured out a few things that you won't find someone.
Life is a roller-coaster. Enjoy the ride rather than rushing to the exit. Just think of this as the bit where you are in the queue hearing the safety announcements.
Also, tell your friend he's a slut if he goes on about it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): It depends on the person, and btw you're fourteen, it's not that incredible that you're a virgin!
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reader, Burnt_feet +, writes (3 June 2009):
 You're 14. As you're from Australia, you've most likely got a good 60 years ahead of you to lose your virginity. I know there's probably a bit of social pressure on you to 'lose yours', but it'll be worth MUCH more if you wait a bit until you're a touch older.
Finally, as it seems that the minimum age to have sex in Australia is 16, then it would seem that you'd be breaking the law by having sex at your age. I mean no age-ist disrespect, but there is a reason why those rules are in place. And no, it's not so they can be broken. ;]
And, anyway, don't be in such a rush to have sex with someone else before you've learnt to properly have sex with your hand! Get to know your own body before you get to know someone else's.
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