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writes:Hi my name is charley and im 14 years old. I have a bf named andrew and hes 13. People at school call me a pedo and other stuff and its been going on since ive been going out with him. People say stuff to him too and i feel like im geting him into loadz of shit but we love each other i think thats what has held us together through all of it. I really love him and i know people think im too young to know what real love is. But can relationships last till your older starting from teenagers. He does really stupid things and it gets me into trouble too sometimes and i have to deal with it when it gets back to me ive got him out of so much trouble sometimes and i feel like his mum to him i just dont know if i should still go out with him or finish it but i really love him. HEEEEEEEELPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): You need to talk to him about it. If he really loves you he would try and make you happy. Which means not getting you into trouble.
Also, I think people are exaggerating an awful lot when they say that your a Pedo. One year isn't that bad. Although at different ages people respond differently possibly because of the 'caterogy' they are in. A 90 yr old and 70 yr old doesnt sound that bad, yet for some reason a 14 yr old and 13 yr old sounds illegal. (?) Which it obviously isn't but you see my point.
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reader, love-him +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hey hon, i was 15 when i met my boyfriend 17months ago who is now 21. I believe we will be together forever :) ignore the childish people calling you a poedo. You clearly aren't a poedo at all. If you really like this lad then dont let silly things break you up :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): If you really love him...then the answer is simple. Stay with him. If you get through all this, and keep fighting it then in the end it will make your love even stronger. Ignore everyone else. hat do they know about it? Most people will get teased anyway when people find out that they're in love. Its an easy thing to tease people about unfortunately because often this is when poeple's emotions feel the most sensitive.I really hope you get through this.Have fun x x x
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reader, Conrad  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 dont worry, those people who call you pedo, are not your friends. they probably dont like you and just to hurt you and to try and make you break up with your true love. wot i believe is that people are never too young to be in love3. :)im 12 and my girlfriend is 14, no one calls me pedo or other harmful names. i love her so much, and this is wot your boyfriend thinks, and everytime she gets angry at me im just like: "oh shit... shes gonna break up now... oh god wot have i done?" and thats not nice, if the best reason for breaking up with him is people calling you names then dont break up! if you love him, love him;). dont worry, and think positively.Conradgood luck.
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reader, Kayleigh :) +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hello :)it doesn't matter what people say. If you love him then no-one can change that. And as for the trouble he gets you in, thats what you do for people you love, you sometimes do wierd things to help other people, and thats what makes a good relationship. People can say what they like but it shouldnt change anything between you two. If you love him and he loves you then you should be happy with what you've got :).Hope that helped you hun :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): just go for it! shove what other people think. its your happiness. of course if you're not happy then get rid of him. your choice. luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): Hunny,
They no not what they are talking about, Take no notice im 45 my b/f is 23 soooooooooooo what! You are young be happy be free and forget these people that judge you as its pure jelousy ok hunny take care love mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (24 November 2007):
 If you love him don't let what other people think affect you. If he was much older than you I would tell you to be careful but as far as it goes, you're just two average teenagers enjoying an average teen relationship and what other people say shouldn't matter to you, although I know it's sometimes hard to ignore what people say...
It seems to me that some aspects of him are a little immature and that is bothering you a little. That's why girls your age generally go out with guys a little older rather than a little younger. As for whether your love is true or not, I'm sure you think it is now. When I was 14 I thought I was in love with my boyfriend too and its only future relationships that have shown me that it wasn't real love. However, who am I to tell you you're not in love? Only you can know that. Who knows if you'll be together forever but you're focusing on the wrong thing. Think about having fun now and let tomorrow look after itself.
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