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writes:A few nights ago i was with my boyfriend and we had a fight. I got fed up with him and started egnoring him. That pissed him off worse so he grabbed me and forced me to look and him and he grabbed my arms really tight and it hurt and i screamed at him but he wouldn't let me go. So i kicked him. He got even more pissed and dragged me to his room and forced to lay on his bed. I smacked his arm when he was going toward my pants and i kicked at him and all he did was laugh at me. I screamed but he covered my mouth. I told him to stop many times but he just wouldn't listen. After he told me he could take it when he wants it, and I needed to remember that. I don't want to go near him cause he scares me, but I do love him even though he hurt me. How do I learn to trust him again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Under those conditions, you can't trust him until he changes his attitude. Be careful!
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (20 April 2008):
 From your words i'm not completely sure if you are saying he raped you or threatened to rape you but either way you need to 86 this guy. Like, yesterday. Men like that are never going to change and he will never care about you like you want him too so dont waste your time on him. It hurts cos you're in love with who you want him to be but when you've had a bit of distance from him you'll see what hes really like.
You'll meet someone who treats you right and doesnt hurt you.
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reader, superbunny +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Sweetie, you shouldn't want to trust him again after he's treated you that badly. You should get out while you still can! I know it's hard, but there's so many much nicer guys out there for you who will treat you with the respect + compassion that you deserve.. You will love someone who does so much more than a guy who treats you like a piece of meat. Message me if you want to talk, sweet. x
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reader, MissKin +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Okay so basically you're saying you WANT to trust a guy that sounds like the most untrustworthy guy ever?
if he did this to you then he doesn't care about you.
He basically said he would rape you whenever he wanted sex from you if you weren't willing to give it him. You want to be with someone who is willing to rape you?
You love someone who knowingly hurt you and laughed at it?
I'm not being funny with you but I can understand loving him but you need to get away from him and stay away from him and if he ever does anything like this again, report him to the police. Just stay away with him. Never trust him ever again - he can't be trusted and don't stay with him. You deserve better than this.
You can't learn to trust someone who shouldn't be trusted.
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