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female
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writes:so it all goes like this...there is this guy at school who i met about 3 months ago. he added me on msn and almost talks to me everyday. the thing is that he sometimes shows me signs that he likes me, like giving me compliments and joking around with me, but he seems to like my best friend more. he already asked her out twice but she always rejected. In the begining (when we met first) she used to tell me that he mentions me alot, but now things have changed....cause he is now mentioning her a lot in his conversations with me. What confuses me is that on msn he talks to me a lot and we really get along, but when it comes to talking face to face at school, we hardly talk. does he like me? or does he like my friend more? how can i be sure if he like me or not? (i am not willing to ask anyone as im afraid to and shy).....P.S. ...this friend is a type of girl that everyone wants to go out with, in fact a large number of guys asked her out at school!!Anyways below i posted a poem which i wrote about him...it says it all, and all of it its true...(even the thing about the punches)10x so much and i hope you can help me, cause im really fed up right now. hes the only thing i think of, and cant stop dreaming that maybe something might really happen between us...10x againSilent LoveI know we’re just friends,But you act differently to me,You kiss and hug the others,All you do is punch me.Not a punch that hurts,Or of revenge,It’s just a punch to tease,And show you’re my friend.And when we are kind of alone,On the bus or at the back of our group,You look in my eyes, and smile that smile,And my heart just goes boom.It stops beating for a second or two,Thoughts race through my mind,Wondering what you’re thinking,Deep down inside.I can’t come to a conclusion,And I pray the God above,To help me see and understand,More about this silent love.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 Hey sweet thing,
Great poem. It really does make your situation really clear. So here's my advice:
I say you chill out and wait. He does seem to be interested in your friend, but seems to be more comfortable around you. So keep being his friend, keep having the casual, teasing relationship and eventually his head will clear and he'll see who has been there for him and who he's had so much fun and laughs with. But, let him fully get over your best friend. You don't want to suspect that he's dating you, but still lusting after her. Let your relationship be your own and not get mixed up with others.
Start chatting in school, maybe. Say hi, how are you, etc. Get the ball rolling, but just be friendly.
You sound like a great gal, and clearly a smart one if you wrote that great poem. You just keep being yourself and he'll come around. In the meantime, do your own thing and keep being friendly. Good luck, sweetness!
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