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*ubblygirl
writes:I am in desperate need of opinions! What should I do with my boyfriend?I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend now for almost 3 months. On one hand, he is a really sweet guy who calls me in the middle of the day to say he's thinking of me, texts me all day, plans dates and sees me as much as possible.On the other hand, Im the one always driving to his place to see him, he's stopped paying for anything on dates and whenever we are out with his friends (since he wont hang out with mine as much), he ignores me all night. Last night, I had had enough after he left me alone with my friend I brought along all night while he talked with his friends and bought them drinks. When I was leaving, I found him outside smoking and talking to some girls with another friend. I told him before I cant date a smoker and it hurt so much that he ended up talking to random girls when I, his girlfriend, was there instead. I told him how I felt and now he's upset saying I dont like it when he sees his friends, which is not the right thing.Im sorry this is long, but I need help. I cant take his disrespect anymore and I've been thinking of dumping him lately. What do you think? I need help!!
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reader, Elainey  +, writes (15 November 2009):
I don't think you should just dump him like that? It is not easy to maintain a relationship afterall and it is not easy to have mutual likings issn't it? From what I see I feel that there is some misunderstandings perhaps you two should talk things out before initiating a breakup or something? Give each another a chance ya?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 November 2009):
The truth is he's using you for convenience. You drive him around, you pay for him and he doens't really show you much attention or respect at all. There are better guys out there.
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