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41-50,
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writes:my boyfriend of 4 years has been cheating on me for about 3 weeks now. i love him a lot and i know he loves me too. he says hes sorry and he wants to be with me but i cant just let him keep doing this to me. hes a very sweet, respectable person, funny and caring. he treats me very good. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): things like that may happen but if you know he loves you and if he told you about it and feels guilty and asked you to stay === STAY!
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reader, Sugaro +, writes (6 March 2007):
 Dont go back to him! once a cheat always a cheat honetly he might have the charming personality every girl looks for but if he cheated on you once and for a long period of time he is likely to do it again. follow your heart and trust what people say to you but honestly i have had many experiences like that and thay have always cheated more than once! Good luck and follow your heart xx
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reader, charly16  +, writes (6 March 2007):
Sorry girl but luv or no luv u need 2 draw the line somewhere or it will go 2 far. If hes really the man u say he is(and he sounds like a decent bloke)then he shud realise hes done wrong. Talk it over a bit and if you think that his explanations sound reasonable + trustwoorthy then your the only one who can judge whether or not to have him back. Good luck girl, let me know how you get on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Well, for starters, he is not treating you very good, he is not respectable or caring if he was cheating on you. And it wasn't one time, it was for 3 weeks. End it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Can you manage to forgive this? If not then dump him and move on. If so then work on the relationship to make sure that this doesn't happen again. There must be some sort of factor which caused him to cheat in the first place. Ask him about it and why he cheated. Also how did you find out that he was cheating on you? Did he tell you? If so that means that he's being honest but if you caught them etc. then that doesn't look too good.
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