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My girlfriend was in a car crash recently, she's very emotional all the time, what can I do to help her?

Q.   My gf has recently been in a car crash, she didn't get a serious damage and neither did the driver only now shes been home for about a week now and shes extremely emotional and very vunerable she doesn't seem to want to go out as if she scared. ...

A.   6 March 2007: Just give her as much support as u can.she needs it from family and friends too though. \good luk... (read in full...)

I am 14 and never had a boyfriend but my friends have one, please give me advice on what to do?

Q.   Hi, im 14 and i've never had a boyfriend. I dont feel as if i'm ready to have one right now as i'm shy, but i feel pressurised to as my two best friends have one. I dont think i will ever get a boyfriend as i am too shy and not really pretty. Please ...

A.   6 March 2007: hi, I used to have exactly the same problem as you and still do sometimes. Dont worry about it.Try not to be as shy and think of boys more as friends.This way youll become more relaxed around them and one day mr right will just pop out.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says he wants to go camping for a few days but there will be no phone reception there... should I be worried and trust him?

Q.   my b/f wants to go camping in the woods by himself for a few days or a week..he says its a place where there is no reception. I am actually a little worried into thinking what if he goes camping for a few days but then leaves early to go to las ...

A.   6 March 2007: Girl if youre asking yourself that then somewhere somewthings going wrong.tell me, whuy dont u trust him? email me back and tellme why you think this is so dodgy. It may be that he just needs a bit of freedom b4 he comes whizzing back 2 you. btw h... (read in full...)

Is she just using me for sex or was she really sorry, how can i tell?

Q.   Sorry if this is complicated. Ok I have sort of got myself into a paranoid mess, a few weeks back I split up with my girlfriend, basically everytime i was with her and he found out he would come to my house and start questioning me about it and ...

A.   6 March 2007: Firstly:do you really want 2 be with her?You gotta make sure that you want her back. Secondly:its up 2 you 2 trust her.Coming from a girls point of view I wud say that u need 2 decide 4 yourself whether or not shes really sorry. I think you need... (read in full...)

He cheated on me no says he's sorry and wants to be with me, what should I do?

Q.   my boyfriend of 4 years has been cheating on me for about 3 weeks now. i love him a lot and i know he loves me too. he says hes sorry and he wants to be with me but i cant just let him keep doing this to me. hes a very sweet, respectable person, ...

A.   6 March 2007: Sorry girl but luv or no luv u need 2 draw the line somewhere or it will go 2 far. If hes really the man u say he is(and he sounds like a decent bloke)then he shud realise hes done wrong. Talk it over a bit and if you think that his explanations ... (read in full...)

My friends all have the wrong idea about me because I gave a friend head 3 times!!!!

Q.   Recently i gave my friend head three times and we kept it a secret. I really like him, hes very good looking but thats not just why. hes also my friends ex, so that wasnt good. any way it all came out this week, and im so imbarrased becau...

A.   6 March 2007: That was stupid! U shud keep ur friends close now that u need them. You cant help it that u like each other and theres no reason why other people shud see it as such a acrime. Trust your friends cos I know from experience that they are the best peop... (read in full...)

Should I tell him how I feel about him and see if he feels the same?

Q.   I have been spending quite some time with a boy for the past year. We act like a couple when we are together. The thing is that netiher of us have told the other how we feel. Should I ask him if he likes me or just tell him that I like him?...

A.   6 March 2007: If youre completely sure that he likes you back then I would tell him how you feel. If not leave it 4 a while cos you dont want to make a fool of yourself... (read in full...)

Ho do you know when a relationship is coming to an end or you're falling out of love with someone?

Q.   Ho do you know when a relationship is coming to an end or you're falling out of love with someone? I don't know whether this is the case so to walk away or whether this is just a phase because I'm bored at the moment? What do you think? What should ...

A.   6 March 2007: If your wondering about these types of questions then maybe its time 4 you to move on. However it may be youre just going through a rough patch and u need some livening up. Watever you do, be it break or stick, dont cheat on him. It is better to ... (read in full...)

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