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writes:i have am very young but i have roblems getting over how my boyfriend used too look at girls, we stopped talking to them we promised to eachother that we would talk to none of the opposite sex.. but i am always hearing he talks to my friends and even his friends agree he used to like a girl and she even wanted to take him from me i feel like i'm not enough. what do ido? there was even a story that he held another girls's hand in one of his classes and it went on for a week, it kills me too kno he came back home and held my hand with that same dirty hand and could look into my eyes and lie away, it's not easy to forget but what do i do? i always feel like he likes other girls if he looks at them. he is always telling me i am beautiful but i just don't feel that it's true. please give me some tips on how to make my relationship and selfesteem better!! Reply to this Question
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reader, chorn95  +, writes (3 July 2010):
im your age so i understand how you're feeling. but guys like this dont deserve us.. you probably want to stay with him because you really like him but what are to him, really? the best thing to do is end it before you get even more upset.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): In this situation it might be best to end it. It's sad but that's my best advice. If you consider it cheating, then it is, hands down. Maybe he just needs to grow up a little. Be strong, you are young and have a world full of amazing guys ahead of you. Don't let someone who is not worth it get you down.
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reader, c.lili  +, writes (3 July 2010):
 sorry it's funny, no offence!
Guys will look at other girls even if they are dating the sexiest woman on the planet.
An woman also look at other guys.
It's human and natural. You are young, let me give you a great tip to be the best girlfriend in the world: don't ever act jealous (only rarely and in a joking way).
Men love a woman that is confident in herself (or at least pretends to be).
If he says after school he's going to play video games with his friends (but you wanted to go to the park with him, don't say he shouldn't go out with his friends, put on a smile and let him go. Seriously it works, he'll end up saying to all his friends how great you are and actually end up spending time with you without you asking!
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reader, prgirl71 +, writes (3 July 2010):
I'm in a similar situation except I wouldn't use the word oggle he just glances and mentions things. I think the key here is that you just don't trust this person. No amount of self esteem is going to fix that. You have to find that trust or just trust your gut and move on. In my experience (I'm almost 40), when you have a "feeling" or suspect a guy is a liar or a cheater....he usually is. Sorry. Good luck hun. Remember, you are the woman. You have the power. Men are a dime a dozen. Don't look for Mr. Right. Just look for Mr. Right Now and if he's "the one" the "now" will fade away! Good luck.
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