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Obsessing about the idea that she's cheating

Q.   I am currently in a long distance relationship with a girl who for the last 3 years has been amazing. This is a temporary thing, just for the summer. I have been cheated on several times in the past, and even though she calls me every night when she ...

A.   3 July 2010: Normally I would say if you feel like something is "off" something probably is....but in your case I would say you've suffered like many of us have from infidelity and unless your gf has started being inconsistent in some way - you should not obsess ... (read in full...)

Why won't he unblock me from facebook

Q.   Why won't he unblock me from facebook? He started to flirt really obviously in class, so much so that people in class noticed. Initially he thought I was the party type, like he is. I dress the act, and act the role. However, I'm really a nerd...

A.   3 July 2010: He won't unblock you because he doesn't want you to know what he's doing. This is a bad scenario for you. Just let him (and his FB) go. Trust me. It's not worth it. Move on. ... (read in full...)

I think it's a mans duty to be the breadwinner!

Q.   I don't only date men who have a good bank account, personality is what matters most to me. I don't depend on men to buy me things, I work and make my own money. BUT is it wrong for me to think that it's a mans duty to look after his women. I want ...

A.   3 July 2010: I totally understand. I always made more money than my husband and I always resented him for not doing more and for not wanting to do more. It's not necessarily that he has to be the ONLY one making money but he should be a PARTNER to you and have ... (read in full...)

Husband won't stop chatting with another woman.

Q.   This was my question in April 2009 My husband has a job that is very boring and he is allowed to chat on his cell phone. A month ago he complained that I don't talk to him enough so he has to talk to "Rebecca". At the time, a month ago, we es...

A.   3 July 2010: Um Yeah. You should leave. Something is definitely going on. If he's texting - email me and I can tell you how to hack into his text and read everything he says from your computer. It's not the way I would recommend you go but at least you could ... (read in full...)

How can I reduce how wet I get during sex?

Q.   Okay, so I get extremely wet while having sex, almost to the point where I can't feel the pleasure anymore. My boyfriend tells me that I get too wet, but we continue to have sex anyways. Is there anything I can do to not get so wet?...

A.   3 July 2010: Keep a towel by the bed and do a discreet wipe before you have intercourse or find a guy who loves how wet you get. Half the problem is that your bf doesn't like it. If he loved it and got super turned on by it I bet you'd feel the pleasure more. ... (read in full...)

How do I improve my self-esteem, I hate my looks??

Q.   I hate myself, because I feel ugly and disgusting. I'm not fat and people say I look ok, but average is not enough for me. I don't know what to do. Everytime I see a beautiful woman, I get depressed. So yes, I'm constantly depressed, every day, ...

A.   3 July 2010: I wish I could be like all these other people on here and tell you that looks don't matter but I work in the entertainment industry and I know for a fact that it's not true. I know when I was young and skinny I walked into a room and OWNED it but ... (read in full...)

He left us for a younger woman, do you think he'll be back??

Q.   My husband of 23 years recently walked out on me and our children (10 and 15)after behaving really badly towards us, and our extended family and friends, for a couple of months. He packed and left and moved straight in with a 24 year old he met at ...

A.   3 July 2010: Even if he does change his mind you need to realize that it's not YOU or YOUR FAMILY that wasn't enough. It is a shortage or lack of something in HIM. Probably a mid-life crisis that has lead him to this other woman. And, while she is a whore for ... (read in full...)

He calls me beautiful and then oggles other girls!

Q.   i have am very young but i have roblems getting over how my boyfriend used too look at girls, we stopped talking to them we promised to eachother that we would talk to none of the opposite sex.. but i am always hearing he talks to my friends and ...

A.   3 July 2010: I'm in a similar situation except I wouldn't use the word oggle he just glances and mentions things. I think the key here is that you just don't trust this person. No amount of self esteem is going to fix that. You have to find that trust or just ... (read in full...)

I hate performing oral sex, but I like receiving it. Am I selfish?

Q.   I have tried oral sex numerous time, but I still hate it. I don't understand how anyone can enjoy performing oral sex on a man. I feel sick, I get a sore throat, my jaws hurt, the taste is awful and the sight of semen make me want to vomit. My b...

A.   3 July 2010: I don't hate performing oral sex on my man but it's not like I'm dying to do it either. I'm sort of neutral about it. I usually do it to please him or to have control in the situation for a while. He likes it but isn't fixated on it. The only ... (read in full...)

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