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writes:hi everyone, please could you share your thoughts. . Do you think that this is fair: my boyfriend and i were tryin to plan a holiday we had agreed a week and he said yes bøok off with work. When he was told by ex when was having son over hols and rather than be honest he called me a liar said he never wanted to go that week or told me to bøok off. I said this was because he doesnt like to say no to ex. . He didn speak to me after this for a week. . Weeks went by and as no funds we didn bøok abroad for the week he wanted to go. Yest he said let's go to nan, caravan thur. I said well why dont we go wedwed
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reader, person12345  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 I wouldn't be too keen on staying with a guy who lied over something like that. Not only that, but used something he did and then called you a liar for him having said it. And this is all over his ex? Yes children will always come first. But he shouldn't be lying over something so ridiculous and especially not when an ex is involved. You should find a guy who won't lie to you about stupid things.
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reader, rcn +, writes (24 August 2010):
 if he's going to allow his ex to manipulate his decisions, I wouldn't trust setting up any specific day in advance to plan a trip with him. Tell him that you two need to be honest with each other, or you're not going to end up working out in this relationship.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 August 2010):
You've picked an idiot. I feel bad for you. But you've picked a guy who basically was so afraid of your reaction that he took the truth and twisted it in your face. Now, his son does come first. That's very fair, and absolutely right. I won't take that away from him. But to then say you lied is showing him up as a wimp. And then he didn't even speak to you. Just dump him and find a man who is able to treat you with respect.
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