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anonymous
writes:I've met this much older man after my divorce. We have sex like we were in our thirties. Four years on he is strugling to satisfy me. And I am near 50 and I am not so crazy about sex. It doesnt matter to me we have less sex. The thing that annoys me is he always blames me when he coudnt cum. He said I am too wet that caused it. Of course it is not the case. He doesnt want to admit he is getting old and couldnt manage it. I dont know how to talk to him about it. Please help.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (1 September 2010):
 NOT your fault honey. I want to tie a knot on his junk for trying to pin it on you.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 not your problem...it's his problem; he'll get used to it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 September 2010):
Maybe he should go see a doctor. It's not you. And to blame you is a bit low, so depending how you feel about this guy, keep one foot out the door in case you feel like running.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): Yeah,I agree with SlimShady ..He is lucky to get it up..How old is he? Its always makes me wonder ,how older men can stay so horny.Did he have a wife before? Did he always have good working penis?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): Do you think he'd be willing to go see a doctor? Sometimes hearing that what he's experiencing is normal with his age from a professional takes the shame off of himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): He's much older than 50 and he's insecure about not being able to cum? Jeez, he's lucky he can get it up. Which makes me wonder...does he take anything like Cialis or Viagra? I've heard those can delay ejaculation.Any man, especially one who is older and should know better, should not blame a lady for his inadequacies or insecurities. Too wet? that's ridiculous. Some men need friction, but unless there are relationship problems, I say if you can get it up, you can get it off. Can you finish him off some other way that has more "friction"?
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