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writes:Last year i went 2 a party and i met a boy there who really liked me. He got my email address form somebody and we emailed each other. He asked me out, but i weren't interested. Weeks later, my friend told me that he had asked her out and she said yes. They have been going out for a few months now and I have got to know lots more about him. I now really like him and regret rejecting him. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 i don't think you really like him, and you shouldn't try not only because hes your friend's now, but because you only think you like him because now he's not available, and a hard catch while before, you could have said yes. i see this happening a lot.. when a girl sees a guy with another girl they all of a sudden seem attractive.. yeah.. try to forget it...
and as a guy, i wouldn't feel good if i knew you didn't like me before, but now you like me now that you see some good things about me.. "what was wrong wiht me before?" goes into my mind. it just sounds wrong, from a guy's point of view..
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (13 March 2007):
sorry hun but you let this one slip, just be a good friend to them both and support their relationship as chasing him could damage your friendship with them.
its sad but youll get over him, your still young and relationships rarely last at your age.i hope youve learnt that although you may not know someone, maybe you should give them a chance.. maybe not in a relationship but just as a person.
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (13 March 2007):
 This is very hard for you but you missed the boat. Your friend is now dating this guy so you have to forget it and leave them too it. This may be hard for you as you will be around him. But you have to remember he is your friends boyfriend.
Aunty t
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): It's too late now to have a relationship with him, he's going out with your mate. The best thing to do is to move on, before this ruins the friendship you have with your mate.
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