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writes:hi just wondering if anyone could give me advice as to how to keep the spark in my relationship going? i dont want my boyfrend-26 to get bored of me-22! wev been together for two years and we get on well, make each other laugh etc, maybe more so then in the beginning... as expected the sex life is less frequent, but neither of us are extremely horny people so thats ok! he's not one for goin to the pub all that much and he hates the cinema so we rarely go there! we do go out to eat quite a bit and for walks on nice days. he likes to sit in and watch tv on the weekdays and is content to do this as he has a very physical job. this is fine with me.. but i feel like someday he might get bored of this, as i dont thnik im a very intersting person realy - i dont get very excited about stuff easily an all that. so does anybody have any ideas of how to introduce sparks back into a relationship? he is goin away for 5 weeks with his friends and i am joining him after that and we are travelling for the year, but im scared that he'll meet somebody more interesting and attractive while hes gone and that it will ruin our plans to travel toegther after!
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reader, aunty t +, writes (13 March 2007):
 Is this really the root of the problem your scared he will go off with some else? Your boyfriend seems pretty content the way things are so why fix something unless its broken. Two years together is a long time. Letting him go for five weeks is very hard on you. There is no reason why he should go off with someone else. I think you are lacking confidence so you may need to work on that. Trying to make the relationship more exciting may do more harm than good. Look forward to your trip and stop worrying about something that may never happen
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aunty t
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reader, kelpel +, writes (13 March 2007):
well the 2 of you travelling together is a start to put that spark back into the relationship - what could be more exciting than that! just remember - he's with you for a reason, he loves you - a man that is happy spending time infront of the tv with you at the weekend rather than going out with his mates is hard to find, you obviously have something special that he wants from you otherwise why would you be together! dont be so hard on yourself, just think when youre out there with your sexy tan splashing around on some gorgeous beach, or falling down in the snow trying to ski and pulling him down with you (or both!) you'll be doing all that together - dont think too much about the future just enjoy the moment. deal with things as they happen. have fun travelling and goodluck!
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