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Have I lost my virginity?

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Question - (11 July 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2012)
A female Nigeria age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm a 17 yr old virgin buh i masturbated a week ago nd i fingered mysef with 2 fingers,do you think i've lost it?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (11 July 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntLost what?

your hymen... yes...

your virginity.... no...

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (11 July 2012):

person12345 agony auntNo. Virginity can only be lost if your vagina is penetrated by a penis. It's a state of mind, not a physical thing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2012):

No. You need to have sexual intercourse to lose your virginity.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (11 July 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntThere are differing ideas of what constitutes the term "virginity." In some cultures, an intact hymen in the vagina defines a virgin. If the hymen is ruptured, torn or broken, that person is no longer considered a virgin. In other definitions, losing one's virginity means a penis has been inserted, even partially for a brief time.

What do YOU think the term "virginity" means? If it means the physical presence of the hymen, then If you inserted fingers into your vagina, it's possible you have stretched or torn the hymen.

You can get out a mirror and look at yourself and see if you see the hymen yourself. It's a good idea to get familiarized with your own anatomy anyway.

Good luck and be sure to keep your fingers and nails clean and clipped short if you intend to insert fingers into your vagina!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2012):

It's not that easy to loose your virginity with 2 fingers. And it can be quite painful so if you felt no pain, than you are fine

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2012):

No, you haven't. Loosing your virginity is not about masturabting. To lose your virginity another person needs to be involved.

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