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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Okay so about three weeks ago I've met this guy in my math class who seems to really really like me. We started talking when we were seated next to each other and he told me that he had a crush on me by the third day! The thing is, is that he is a junior and I'm a sophomore and he has this reputation for being a bad boy, and im a good girl but when he is with me he acts really shy and seems to really respect me. Anyways I told him that we he was moving a little to fast and he told me that he'd wait. Two weeks later I began to really really like him and he told me that he was moving to Washington, and he didn't want to hurt me with a long distance relationship. I was a little upset because I was ready to date him, but than two days later he said he was able to reason with his parents and move in with his Grandparents. So now my dilemma. Just last week we had a seat change and he stopped talking to me altogether! He doesnt even call everyday like he used to, and I don't know why. I mean he's always the one that makes the first move whether to say hi or call me or text me, I've never really done it first because I get to nervous. Could this be the problem? I just really have the feeling that he's lost interest in me. What do I do to get it back?!
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reader, heart-shaped-balloon +, writes (5 October 2010):
 Maybe he just got tired of chasing you... It's your turn now. He probably thought you weren't interested. So go for it, show him you are! Take initiative. Nobody wants to chase all the time and never be chased themselves. It's tiring.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): i think he still likes you but he initiated that he wants to be with you by willingly moving in with his grandparents,now its up to you to confirm that you want to be with him too by calling him or talking to him or something.if he is as shy as you say hes not going to come right out and say heyy!! i wanna be with you,hes going to show you that he wants you in the wierdest sweetest ways like not moving to washington for example,its your job to look out for those little hints and and show him yes i like you too.it may take a while especially if hes shy trust me.my boyfriend was just like that ,we were great friends but he was super shy!,took him 3 grades to ask me to be his girlfriend.be patient.if he really has lost interest though,which i doubt,hes not worth you. good luck!
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