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writes: I have a boyfriend that I love very much. We have a great relationship but I crave passion and spontanity. I have a huge problem!!! I have a major crush on a real hunky, mechanic co-worker. I am the receptionist at an auto shop and whenever I see him I just want to throw myself on him! I know it's awful; what do I do???
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (26 May 2006):
 If you love your boyfriend that much then talk to him before rushing off to bed someone else! Try and find ways you can make the relationship more stimulating, you have probably just hit a stale patch. Talk to your man, and tell him how you feel, and see if you cant get the passion back for the both of you. Its not going to happen if you sit back and say nothing! But quielty sit there wanting someone else! If you go off after this "hunky" mechanic, it would be meaningless sex anyway the chances are once its over the passion there would die too... when we have a new and fresh relationship everything is all passionate and spontaneous, but as things progress this dies down, we have to work at it to keep it alive, not look elsewhere!
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reader, smeedle +, writes (26 May 2006):
 You are not satisfied with the relationship you have, you say yourself that it lacks spark so you look around and find someone that does spark an interest in you.
So what do you do, you can either try spicing up your life with the bloke you love or you can ditch him and throw yourself at this hunk and hope that he is everything that you want.
Firstly though I would find out if the hunk wants you, he may not have the same feelings for you.
What all this adds up to is that you are not happy in your current relationship, so you need to think about what you want and very soon before you are tempted to have a fling with mr hunk.
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