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writes:We've been together for close to 8 months now and she forgot my birthday. Today the 16th of december is my birthday. Although we've talked about how to celebrate it all week last week, I havent heard from her all day. She had an exam today but she finished it a while ago and I havent heard from her yet. I feel the eage to call but something tells me I should just wait and see what if she calls...What should I do because I'm really hurt Reply to this Question
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (17 December 2013):
 She just may not be that into you, especially if yourll spoke about it last week.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2013): You wait and see. If she did forget, you take it like a man.It was exams today; and she may have to make it up to you.I have a sister whose birthday is on the 21st of December.People get confused whether to give her separate birthday gifts; or combination Christmas/B-day gift. Christmas parties are during the week of her birthday. So they have to plan in-between office parties and house-parties.My brother-in-law screwed up several times. Now he knows what it means to her. Oh, now he gets it right. Big time!Of course they should be separate. Everyone else get's theirs separate! Maybe she was planning to combine the two for you as well?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2013): I know, it's a downer, but if you mean well, remind her (not a guilt trip). Then, see her reaction. Years ago, I would have told you to wait and see, but there are no winners in that..
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reader, llifton  +, writes (16 December 2013):
 she may have something up her sleeve! i would wait it out and see. if she forgets, just chalk it up to finals and her mind being pre occupied. i know it hurts. see if you can't forgive and forget if she did forget. it wouldn't be on purpose.
happy birthday!
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