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30-35,
*nobby
writes:I really need you help!!I'm still at school in 3rd year now (just done my sats) and i really need your help. i went out with a girl in 1st year and loved her to bits it lasted 7 month and i was devastated when we broke up over some jealous idiot making things up, i have wanted her back for... well since we broke up, i have tried dating other people and it just doesn't work out, i also have the problem - i keep being called GAY just because i hang around with girls (i admit i might have picked up a few habits a boy shouldn't but there only minor) i think she doesn't like me for this reason. Please can you help me??????!!!!!!!Thanks Snobby
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2007): hi iam in college now i was called gay in school and i knwo what it like to be called name s and stuff but now when i see the people that called me gay guess what they are gay themselves and iam the one that got a girlfriend so i wouldn't wory about it just concentrat on school do the things u like to do don't try and change trust i did and it got from worse to worse so just do what u want to do m8
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (10 May 2007):
 Oh you poor thing, perhaps you need to start to think about the little habits you have picked up and although you think they are minor, do they scream of female tendancies?
Do you play football, cricket or rugby or do many male sports at all?
There are always horrible people in the world ready to run us down at the earliest opportunity. Rise above it as he probably did it because he wanted this girl for himself.
Well you were with this girl for 7 months and at your age that is a long time but don't beat yourself up about it.
Stand tall and proud and don't let any of these comments get to you, you know the truth and that is what counts here. I know this may sound awful but I do think you need to try and appear like you are dating other girls or be seen with them as such so that your ex can see that you are not gay and you have moved on.
It is a slight reverse psychology in that if you appear very manly then you are, if you know what I mean.
Think about what your actions are that make you appear more feminine and try to address it even in a small way. Don't lose all those feminine qualities that are yours because that can be important later on in life when you are chatting to women, you obviously have a good rapport with females and that is a great quality. They obviously feel comfortable around you and if you are close to your mum or sisters that is a true sign that you enjoy female company.
Hope some of the above helps even in a small way and don't stress yourself out just be strong and proud OK.
BFN
Country Woman
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (10 May 2007):
 Rumours come and go and I guarantee some else will be brunt of the jokes soon. I can imagine in a school this is'nt do you any favours, but you are who you are.
You hanging around with girls is probably why they are picking on you. their jealous, or soon will be. They find it hard, where you find it alot easier to mix with girls. Use that to your advantage if you can. As you get older, the people who matter will see these jokes as childish pranks and will actually see you through all of that.
Just dont change who you are for these people.
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reader, Snobby +, writes (10 May 2007):
Snobby is verified as being by the original poster of the question O another thing when i went out with my exes best mate she didnt like n broke us up, is it she thinks i dont want him but i dont want someone else to have him????
Snobby
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