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writes: I'm a student at university and i've been feeling really emotional. I really fancy a guy on my corridoor and he doesn't appear to fancy me back. I get jealous when he flirts with other girls and tonight i couldn't stand it anymore and i started crying. Now i feel really silly. The thing is i can't even understand my attraction to him, i don't want to feel this way about him but i can't help it. There are other guys that seem interested in me and i wish i could feel the same for them as i do him, but i want him. What shall i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2006): uhm this is really funny but i've got the same problem. I noticed this guy some time ago in my lecture at university. Thought he was really cute. Then this term he's been sitting right in front of me and i can't avoid him. I get jealous when he talks to other girls (especially that other girls seem to flirt its so obvious). Problem with mine is he is of a different culture and i'm not sure how to approach him. Actually i'm not used to approaching guys. Usually they do the chasing. I decided to take some time tilli'm sure and i'll talk to him when i'm ready and in control. Hopefully it'll be soon lol. But i know exactly what you feel. It's a bit like a crush!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (19 January 2005):
 This strikes me as being a simple case of unrequited love! You want this guy because he doesn't appear to want you and then he becomes more of a challenge and more exciting to you.Does he know how you feel? If perhaps he did know, he may even ask you out.However, I think you need to redirect your attention elsewhere, away from him and build your confidence. Join some of the groups and clubs at uni to meet other people and why not try just talking to some of these guys that appear interested in you. You never know, you may like them once you get to know them better! Spread you wings a little and focus your attention on other interests and other people. If the guy you really like then asks you out as he sees you having a good time, you can then decide for yourself if you really would like to be with him or not. You may surprise yourself and find you prefer your new set of friends or may even meet someone special by then.You can do it!!
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