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Went to disco and picked up a... Text and email pest!

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Question - (19 January 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

hi.

i went to a disco recently, and i took this guys e-mail address. my sister e-mailed him, so now he has my address. i was really angry with her, but this guy won't stop e-mailing me. he also has my mobile number and texts me at night. i know he means no harm, but it is starting to annoy me.

thanks. hope someone out there can help,

p.s. i'm 12 and a half

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A reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (19 January 2005):

Rebecca Batchelor agony auntSomehow this guy has ended up with your email address although you need to remember you may have given him a bit of interest by taking his email address. I wander how he has your mobile number as well? It doesn't really matter because you don't want him pestering you.

You need to let him know in a tactful way that though you would like to be friends, you don't want him to be contacting you constantly as you are too busy to reply as you do have other friends.

If he does continue despite you saying this, then call your mobile operator to see if they will block his number. If not, consider changing your number despite the hassle this may cause. You can also change your email address, create a new one, which will give you peace of mind. However, you could just simply delete all his messages and not reply and more than likely soon he will get bored.

It may be an idea to confide in your parents about this if you can and they can help you change your mobile and email address.

Tell your sister also that she must not hand out any personal information about you to anyone unless you say it is okay.

Be very careful in future also who you allow to have information about you.

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A reader, Sharon, writes (19 January 2005):

Sweatheart,

This is not hard.

First you change your email adress.

Let the people know that you want to know.

Then stop using the old one.Ok now you call your phone opperator and ask them to ban the number that he is using to call you or better yet, get another sim and number. Get your folks to help if you cannot do this yourself. In future, tell your sister to use her own email addie, not yours.

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