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writes:Me and my ex had a great relationship for over three months! We broke up because he said he needed a break... I was heartbroken! I talked him into getting back together the next day! A few days later he still wasnt happy with me and broke up with me again! We went about a week this time... Then we got back together again! At last i was tired of the bs and knew he didnt want me again which this time we had been together over a month! Almost six months in all together counting the breakups! Well at last i figued he didnt want me agin! So instead of having my heartbroken again i broke up with hime this time! It has been over a month since the breakup! And he is wanting my other ex's girlfriend... What should i do? Or should i want him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): hiya, personally i wudnt go bac with him, he sunds such a scumbag. u may love him but if u waste all this time breakin up, goin bac out, dito, dito, dito. but u cud b scarin of all these ova blokes tht want u. u shudnt waste time with him. it sounds like he is playin u along. he obiousl knows tht u like him nd he is takin u 4 granted.
U CUD DO SO MUCH BETTER, the world is at ur feet.
take my advice, plz nd u will b sooooooo much more happier.
gd luck
xx
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reader, bellasmommy +, writes (27 July 2008):
eff that guy! you dont need him. he's no good, and clearly you guys dont do well together!! i honestly dont see how people could break up and get back together sooo many times. just let him do his thing.
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reader, AskSusie  +, writes (27 July 2008):
Hell no! Don't go back to this guy. I know for a fact that there is someone out there bigger and better for you.
Girls spend alot of time trying to analyse a relationship because they have low self esteem and nothing going on in their own life.
Here are the steps you should take to forget this guy and encourage a new life:
List yourself some fabulous hobbies where you can meet new friends, both men and women.
Research the more realistic options in your list by looking for groups in your area. Some examples would be potter, scrapbooking, photography, arts and crafts, dancing, and I bet now you can think of more of your own.
Join these groups and mingle. You will be surprised at the difference in your life - you will realise that you don't need these people in your life and that you only deserve the best.
Regards
AskSusie
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (27 July 2008):
 Leave him alone. Sounds like you are enjoying this drama, because you are having a hard time letting him go, yet your relationship was never that serious (as the two of you were constantly breaking up and getting back together). Be the adult and move forward. His intrest in another girl is no longer your business because you are not together. It may hurt your feelings, but the two of you are not meant for eachother. Move on, meet new people, and release this grip on the drama. You will be far more happier!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (27 July 2008):
I think you should let things go. Let him realize what a good thing that he lost. If a guy wants something he'll go after it. If you keep trying to talk him into getting back with you and he does, it's probably something he doesn't really want, he just "feels bad" or something to that effect. I would say just back off and let him do his own thing and you do the same. Even though it's hard and you really don't want to, I would suggest you go out and meet some new people. Just enjoy yourself. After all, that's what he's doing, right? If he see's you're not paying attention to him and that you're having a good time without him, that could intrigue him to come back to you. In the meantime, you may find someone who appreciates you more and makes you happier!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): My personlal optian is that you shouold pack your bags and run for the hills and let this creep fend for himslef. He sounds like a man who wants what he wants, with no feeling for those he hurts...and you sound like a sweet person who likes to make peoploe happy...Let this fool waller in his own soot...perhaps he will then see what a fool he was for leaving such a Lady as yourself. In the mean time, work on your own self. That way, when he comes back begging, you can laugh him off. Best of luck Sweet Pea!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): I don't think there is 'need a break' in a relationship. If both of you love each other, why there should be a break?
He wanted to break up few times. Even if you get him back, do you think it will be long lasting?
I will suggest you to move on, avoid rebound relationship and get a better partner
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